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I would also like advice from any of you all on my situation I am new on this site. My ex and I are doing no contact right now. I’m on day 5. We talked for 10-12 days after the break up before we started NC. I see her around a lot cause we are in the same battalion. We are in the military. Everytime I see her she is With a specific guy assuming the rebound who is actually in the same company maybe even platoon. I don’t see her dating him cause it would be pretty unprofessional to mess with someone in the same unit as you in the army. But things happen I guess. But also she has been tweeting about how happy she is and yesterday tweeted about how I am using religion to try to get with her cause after the break up I have been going to church and plan to get baptized. Do I continue NC and let her do her thing and possibly date other people and move on or in my situation do I need to speak to her every now and then to build up attraction
I’m new to this website and I’m currently going over a break up with my ex. Here’s the story, we are both in the military and deployed in Europe right now, and we broke up over lack of trust do to me talking to other girls. We were about to be together for a year but then she broke up with me. I tried staying in touch for about 10-12 days after the break up and it just wasn’t the same. We got in an argument, and we decided to not contact each other for a while. So I have started NC. I’m on day 5. And I have my doubts about it and just want advice. We haven’t talked which is good, but I see her a lot cause we are in the same unit. And she is always around hanging out with guys. Specially one who I think is a rebound but they are in the same company. So they see each other every day which if it is a rebound I think would be very unprofessional cause they are legit in the same unit/possibly platoon. Also she has been tweeting about how happy she is, and lately commented that I’m trying to use religion to get her back because after the Break up I have started going to church and plan to get baptized. I think she is trying to provoke me and invade her space again. But I also feel like if I ignore her she will move on cause being the army she has multiple options to get With another guy. Any advice would help.
