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lol It is funny! I have a girl friend who lives in Canada and talks to me once in a while. She is dating a new guy and this guy is a project manager but he does not have a car. She said it feels “unpleasant” when you drive your date.
Anyway, it sucks that being a man requires so assets but feminists keep yelling about equality while equality in reality does not exist.
Anyway, the good news is that I am planning to buy a car this summer (in a couple of days)! Its depressing that I am confined to my house!
Rihanna, about your ex, I don’t judge him because I don’t know him but there are chances that he is in my situation and has the same mental setup!
Rihanna,
I think I got what you mean now! Thank you for your concern! I think this site was about how to get your ex back and I kept talk about my life issues in the context of my ex! The truth is that I have trouble with life! I had a talk with a friend 3 weeks ago! We had not talked for maybe 2 years. He said that I have changed! He said, he remembered me (about 7 years ago that we were colleagues), as someone who would keep saying others that I am a very lucky man but now I see negatives in life! My tone is negative! Since they I did my best to change to the person I was years ago! That was a great reminder!
To be honest, I don’t give any fuck about the ex and my issues with my life is in terms my assets. I don’t have a car and it really sucks to be in this town with now public transport system. I know that I am decently attractive to some girls but it sucks when I ask them for a ride. It especially sucks for the first dates. I have been told this several times in the last year that “she” feels awkward when they drive me especially in our first date! Most of them did not last, even though they claimed that they enjoyed it and that was real–no flattery or euphemism.
I thought it would be smart if I tried to find girls on internet. Then I got messages from real hot girls that if I can meet them and spend the night together and my response was, sugar–I have have no cars; can you give me ride and there was no replies (sorry Steve, women want men to dominate them, they like been driven–in bed and real life. The harder you fuck them, the more they love you). Yes! My problem is that I am working hard for my future but for the present, I should go through these circumstances.
About my ex. She turned out to be a super bitch but I appreciate the fact that she drove me to different places and helped me handle a lot of things. It is sad but I could see her friends making jokes on her taking care of her boyfriend–driving him to malls for shopping, doing his laundry while his role is to provide the dick (this is why I hated her friends which I used to talk about in my first days of breakup). There was a friend of her who would our weekend plans and would mention that blah blah blah are going to blah blah blah place and she does not understand our relationship. Even though my ex supported me on those instances, I knew that these jokes will have negative impact on her mind and it finally did! I don’t like my ex because she became super rough on me but whenever, I meet a girl who talks about the inconvenience that she might face in dating me, I feel like my ex was an angel and she deserved more care from me!!!
RAED, enjoy being in early 20s! Girls don’t expect you to have anything but to be fun but when you reach your 30s you hear them talking about assets you should have! They become fucking materialists!!
RAED, my experience with sexual partners is that you need to pin them down as soon as possible. Some people have this thing in their head–don’t take your honey to the place where you make money! She might love you but she may not be interested in having a relationship with her colleague. But it is all up to you! Different people have different approaches and no one is wrong!
8*//But to be honest, I that my suffering was because I am extra kind! Just a couple of weeks after our breakup, a mutual friend of ours who lives in the same apartment asked me about my ex. and I said that she is no more there! Then she kissed me and hugged me and told me that she is always there! I had dated her once! I had this idea of dating her neighbor and our mutual friend but I thought, it would be mean!
Rihanna, this last ex made me look like a fool by telling her boss that I don’t leave her alone! That was disgusting and shows how cheap she was! If I think of her (which is rarely these days) its about her disgusting personality. If I think of her its about the lies she always told me! And every day, I discover a new lie from her! I discovered another lie about her 2 weeks about when my friend was talking about the culture of the country of her parents.
RAED,
Of course when it is too much and every time you look around it is you two looking at each other–it is a mutual crush! It is funny that girls consider it as a signal and if you don’t approach (but you happen to talk about it sometime later), she will probably ask you about why didn’t you approach her.
Rihanna,
You are asking me to do NC on you? lol
If you think I am thinking obsessed with my ex, you are wrong! There is nothing that reminds me of her and I know her real personality! She was faking all the time and this is what pisses me off but I don’t want to see her again!
I feel a lot happier! I have even started feeling as happy as I was before meeting her. Sorry for not telling you guys how happy I feel. I thought it would sound extra bombastic if I told you guys how happy and sexy I feel! My ex is the biggest loser in losing me–no doubt!
Okay day before yesterday, I was at the library and I noticed that a girl with real short shorts, small top and extra huge boobs looking at me. Her body was big and sexy! Every time I raised my head, it was we looking at each other. At some point, she put her legs on the table and turned towards me! I’m damn sure that if I had talked to her, sex was the least thing we would have but you know what? First of all, it was library and I could see that people had noticed this weird thing and it was absolute silent zone! Plus, these are my finals days! I’m sure that I will find another like her soon! There are tones of sexy fish for me!
Steve,
This is a video supporting Rihanna’s talks about women loving money! It is somewhat true dude and that is unfortunate! About the depression time, I believe there was no rich men around and women (in general) had to compromise!
Watch this video about ladies, peeps! Hot crazy matrix!
I believe that she has crush on you but she is doubtful as most women are. I still bet on it.
I cleaned my closet today and discarded about 30 bottles of vodka and whiskey. I’m glad that I don’t need to drink to forget anymore. I have started seeing the future bright! Man I had great ego boosters lately! I know that my ex was not the best but my brain sometimes tends to trick me! I have got a response to this trick–if she was the best, I am okay with the second best! And yeah, 2nd best among 3 billion ladies outside more than wowwww!!
Peeps! I have discovered something!This semester I had a classmate who looked like my third last ex. I loved her face. She had a ring on her hand and once said that she has a boyfriend but our eye contacts was so often that I am sure that it was a mutual crush! But more importantly it made me think that there might be some kind of genetic makes up that we are more attracted to!
Also a jump at what my therapist said about my ex. I told him that she was great in mind games and she eventually won it. His reply was–she also did not win it because she also had a breakup and I felt like man why didn’t I ever think of this??!! Now I tend to think that it was painful for both of us!
I agree with Steve! It is somewhat funny that I was thinking of Rihanna’s case and when I checked my email, and there was Steve’s response. Even though I was single for a year so far but it is hard for me to think someone who attends more social events is single. Plus it was not that I didn’t want to be single, I did not have enough assets and I was depressed because I was dumped.
About Rihanna, I have started thinking that since you have started talking about going to Sydney (close to your ex), he is now trying to break it off. Previously, it was a matter of replying some texts for him.
Sorry for being rough Rihanna, but it is not fair to be in such a situation for a year. I know that you have had your first serious relationship very late and your mindset is different from people who get laid very often.
It is a long time that I have started thinking about my ex bullshitting too. Her flirty lusty change of tone that she was great in makes me think she probably has a great experience in seducing men. There was times that I thought she is so professional that she might have even worked in a strip club sometimes–that is serious but she kept saying that I am using her for sex as an excuse for making distance with me. She also claimed for being single for a long time since her last boyfriend but I have started to think she was bullshitting all the time.
Steve, I seriously feel the pain you had all the time! This fallacy was the roughest part to me! Thinking about her lies made me angry all the time. I hate this “its me–not you” thing! Anyway, I acted too clingy ignoring her rosy phrases! LOL!
Man conspiracy is a real thing! I did not believe in it until recently!
Rihanna,
I don’t say anything about your relation with your ex because there are things that I don’t understand. The most important thing that I don’t understand is that he broke up and he is been single for a year. This can be but hard to believe especially you previously said that he was in many relationships. Previously he had a broken arm(?). Ignoring this, I tend to think that he is a cool guy because to my understanding he cares about you. Yet, I am concluding these things from what you have said. At this point, I am not in a position to conclude on anything and tell you to do whatever your heart says until you realize your heart is wrong!
I simply recommend you (and others) to see a professional therapist. This guy pointed things out that I never thought about.
Peeps,
Since they didn’t have any kind of sex, I don’t think he is using her. Plus, I don’t believe having sex means using someone! Sex is mutual pleasure!
RAED,
Did you see the match last night? I honestly wanted Manny Pacquiao to win!! That was unfortunate!
It’s amazing to see that our topics of discussion has changed from ex! It makes me laugh!
I agree with Steve about not renting a place unless you know all the roommates. Sorry guys for bringing this ex thing back but her I heard my ex’s flatmate adding “boobs” to the end of her name and she denied it. Fuck her because her denial further pissed me off! Plus this guy would have parties and it would his friends would puke all over the house.
Today, I had another session with my therapist but he said I am fine and there is no need for any other sessions.
You know what? I think I should have gone to the therapist long ago! His advises are great and I had never thought about some of them before.
So when is your potential move in to Sydney Rihanna? I’m glad for you because there are a lot of opportunities in a bigger town for everyone.
I guess, I was not clear enough. You were of course drunk but not over-drunk. Since I don’t throw up (ever), my definition of being over-drunk is not being able to remember what you did, the next day or being close to that stage. In most of those parties that I attended, I did not remember how the party ended. I was honestly tired of getting this drunk until I went to this counselor. In fact, it made me more depressed because the next day I had no new friends.
True, girls tend to look more beautiful when one is drunk.
No! That’s serious! I attended many parties over last year but I did not get any girls out of them! It just because I would get over-drunk anytime I attended some parties. Just imagine Steve, if you were not as drunk as your other friends were, you would not ended up having a five seconds of kiss with that chick. Same is with me! Even though I feel like I become a much better public speaker when I am drunk but the result shows that in reality I don’t get anything out of it.
Did I ever tell you this? I was in a party in Jan this year and I met an attractive girl. I felt like I had seen her somewhere before. So I had a topic to start a conversation with her which was a good thing. I approached her and told her that we might have met somewhere. She said yes and it was on another friends birthday. I was drunk and my arms were around her and all the time, I tried to kiss her. It was totally embarrassing. I felt like at least she is not offended but I did not feel good about it somehow finished the conversation. This happened a lot to me!
Man, I was super drunk last summer almost every night! I never cried on my ex but getting drunk to forget things makes it worse than dealing with reality, I guess.
I am visiting a counselor too. He said overindulging makes one depressed. Too much of alcohol decreases the testosterone level in the blood as a result of which on might become depressed. To me this February and March were the months that I got over-drunk in every weekends.
I had an amazing day guys! How about you?
Its been almost 3 weeks that I did not drink! It makes me feel like I am in control of myself now!
Thanks Rihanna! I should keep your piece of advise in my mind. With my experience so far, women find it weird (or unattractive) if I ask questions about their kids. Probably they have this in their mind–“know me first, then I’ll introduce the kid.”
I was out of my mind last year! I got in contact with a lot of women here but I was too pushy (my thoughts were not in my control). Now I try to prove them that I am a caring person and understand and appreciate what they are. I am become myself before I met my ex!
