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Sorry to hear that. But in this case I am sure NC will send a strong statement. IF he tries to reach out again: Ignore him!
I started using Tinder in my first 2 weeks of NC. Just to get some dates and to get out. It helps a lot when you are out and meeting new interresting people. And it makes the NC a lot easier… Just a suggestion 🙂
Dont feel down because you did not hear from him. Just because you dont hear anything, it doesnt mean there is nothing going on. Keep up the NC. Make him think, make him wonder.
It is a very ggod sign that he said he still loves you, and you have taken your part of the blame for the breakup and worked on it.
There isnt much you can do for now than be strong and keep the NC.Remeber to update your facebook with interresting suff you are doing.
Ex: Check in at a resturant on FB with the text “wow this place is really amazing, you guys need to try this” or something like that. But do NOT show who you are there with. It is a good way to make your ex wonder. “Is it a date? is it a friend ect”Yes! She reached out again today. Out of the blue there was a text “Hi, how are you doing?”
Again: I think the NC is working on her. I am in day 17, and haven´t felt better.
Thanks to those who read this and comment on this topic. It is a great “therapy” to have others to talk to. I will read your stories tomorrow and give my feedback as well…
Yay she texted me 🙂
I made another Facebook update about this thing I mentioned before. (Yes I use facebook a lot, but this time I was not trying to get her attention with it)
She texted me “wow that sounds really exciting”I guess the keyword here would be “exciting”… I am no longer her borring ex.
Keep up the NC, right???Update from me
I just tried to make an update on facebook again. This time regarding something that is soon gonna happend in my life (not gonna get into details her)
I KNOW it is something that interrests her, and that she would wanna ask about it. But she didn´t text me. Guess she took the hint when I did not reply the last 2 times. But at least I was on her mind, and that was the point of it 🙂
She needs to see these amazing things that is happening.Week 3
I am now going into week 3, and as I can read around the web week 3 is where she would start missing me the most?
She is also coming to town after week 3 for a short vacation. I am very excited as to what is gonna happend. Will we bumb into eachother? Will she write me and ask to see me?She didn´t text me anymore yesterday. I hope I am on her mind 🙂
Either she is wondering what the heck is going on (good sign for me)
Or she doesn´t think about it, and that would mean she never had any feelings for me.What to do after NC?
When my NC is over and we start talking again how should I reply when she asks why I never replied to her texts?a) “you said you needed to be yourself, so I gave you the space you needed. And to be honest I kinda needed some space as well to move on”
b) “Sorry, I just have so much going on right now, I completely forgot about it. How are you?”
Ofcause with a cheerful and happy attitude 🙂
Thanks for your relpy man 🙂
Yes I am taking this text as a signof interrest. Now I bet she is wondering why sshe cant get a conversation started with me 🙂Another update from me
I know NC is about 2 things. One is for my healing and self improvement. The other is to make her mind start working and miss me.
I feel like the healing part is going very well. I hardly ever think about her during the day, and I have made many improvements.She tried to contact me again
Like I said in one of the other posts, when I get a job in the city she lives in I am gonna sell my house and move. So today I posted on facebook that I had put my house up for sale, and “an exciting future waits ahead” 🙂Ofcause she was the first to message me 🙂
Did you get a new job??I still did not reply 🙂
Keep up the NC for 2 more weeks? Yes? No?
Time for an update
It finally happend. She send me a text. A happy one. And I am ignoring it 🙂
I wont lie: It feels good… 🙂She is a very serious athlete, and I am very interrested in that sport as well. So during our relationship I was always the one she turned to for advice and to talk about it. So when she texted me today it was ofcause because of some big news regarding her sport. My mind can come up with 100´s of reasons to answer her text and talk to her about it… BUT I WONT!! I need to be strong.
She has other friends with the same interest as us, so I am sure she will go to them and talk instead. Maybe she already did? I dont know, but I am sure her mind is wondering now 🙂
Anyways, my focus is on myself now, and it feels goooooood 🙂
I personally think that the reason I want a text from her that I can ignore, is because I see it as a confirmation that the NC is working. (That is how I would feel about it)
Anyone agree?Thanks for all your replies.
I wont say I am obsessing over her (Any more) 🙂
I am trying to do a lot for myself, and ofcause I want to “show off” to her. And yes, a text or 2 from her that I can ignore would really make my day. 🙂
You people have felt like that to right? 🙂Ok so she didn´t text me yesterday about the coffee invite. But again: didn´t expect it either… 🙂 I just like to update this thread with my thoughs, and get some feedback, as it makes the NC way easier to me 🙂
Ok, so I am still doing my NC, and putting all focus on myself now.
I have made som changes to my looks. (New haircut, new style, tanning, teeth whitening)I am also looking for a new job, and I am planning on selling my house (This has been a dream for some time now)
When the house gets put up for sale I am gonna post a picture of the sales sign on my facebook, put a description like: “looking forward to a very exciting future” or something… That will make her wonder… What is happening, where is he going ect…
I had one thought:
She has changed a bit since our breakup. She has always been a health freak, and she normally dont drink, and always laugh at those drunken girls she see in the morning on their way home.
But since our breakup she has been out partying just about every weekend (Except one)…I am thinking this is a normal, considering her new job, new school ect… There is some social preasure…
