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she has started to view my snapchats. I think it’s kinda funny but also don’t know how to read it.
@patricia12 I wanted your opinion or anyone else’s. I told you she blocked me on Instagram and to make it where I didn’t have to see her I just unfriended her on Facebook. I didn’t touch snapchat because I could care less about that but I posted one of my dog and I see she viewed it. Now I can see this from a few different perspectives. Do you think even tho she is trying to get over or deal with the break up she sill is curious as to what I’m up to?
I think I will leave the message alone as its for her to respond. I would rather not push her farther away. I will probably just delete my Facebook app and focus on me.
Well I guess I will leave her alone. She posted a picture of her dog earlier on Instagram and I liked it she then blocked me which kind of hurt but I guess that’s my signal to leave her alone. Thank you for your help.
@patricia12 thanks for the help. I have not gotten a reply as of yet. I was wanting to know what period of time if no reply do you think I should wait and ask again. if I ask again at least I tried and if no answer the second time that is my clue to move on.
She responded and I asked her to lunch and to talk. I know she has read it and I understand if she is apprehensive. Now all I can do is wait. I appreciate the advice.
Well I call and she didn’t pick up so I left a voicemail. When we were seeing each other my calls sometimes did not go through so I messaged her saying the same thing. I will leave it at that.
Her grandma had the surgery right before we broke up. I’m probably going to wait till Sunday And call just to check up and try to leave her wondering and if she calls me back I’ll ask her to lunch but as you said it all depends on her reaction as to how I act.
No no begging. the hard part is what to say or an excuse for calling. The only hung I could think of is her grandma had surgery and stuff. To me calling to just check up and ask to just chat over lunch doesn’t seem that great of an idea first phone call. Another thing that I do not know is if she is working tomorrow or not I will probably just call her late tomorrow.
The thing I’m worried about is her thinking I’m needy if I contact her after only a month.
The girl that said she messed up was someone I talked to before me and my ex got together. I understand that she may not want to reunite. I may call her this weekend and see if she would like to get lunch next week and chat.
Thanks for the input. I understand that going out that soon and stuff was childish. I wasn’t ready for a serious relationship with someone else. The reason I started talking to and went out with someone else is because I didn’t want to seem weak so to speak and I understand that it could hurt my chances of getting back together. Yes our communication needs to improve.
The only thing that I’m having trouble with is how long do I wait (I understand a month minimum) because the 6th is exactly a month since we broke up but the 7th is the last time we talked. Any input from anyone on that would be great as this will be the first time that I want to contact after going NC.
Should I wait and see if she makes it?
