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Moving forward with my life in every direction except her. We are both going to the same uni now, but I don’t know what to do about her. It’s been 2 and a bit months no contacts and I want to do something, just a letter or something to make her start thinking and maybe wanting me again :LI haven’t spoken to her in 2 months, I have made massive changes in my life and am trying to be an all round happier person. I was tempted to send a magic letter like in relationship rewind, but worried it won’t work. Her new relationship is very odd, their constant desire to spread everything on Facebook is worring, in the 6 years I’ve known her she was very inactive on Facebook, this combined with her making the photos of him public (she changed the settings a few months after I deleted her), it’s very confusing, I know that 10% sounds low, but honestly whenever I’ve been confident she has been much more attracted to me. My biggest problem is that she has become dependant upon him, she has 2 friends. I am not going to wait around forever as that’ll just be torture, but I want to take a step other than no contact to improve my situation, even if it’s just building attraction and making her regret her decision :L
Thank you for all your support, I’m glad that there are people out there who have experienced similar and have an understanding of how to deal with this situation
I haven’t contacted her for 2 months, we spoke a bit a month ago, had a few nice chats, then one where she was less engaged (I picked a crap topic) and then the last she didn’t reply because she was with him,I thought she just had enough but I bumped into her with him :L should I just leave it even longer? I’m worried she will never contact me, I went on holiday with her friend, got a job and improved all my hobbies, I don’t know how else to show her :L
Thank you, you’ve made me feel a lot better, I’ve completely (almost) cut back, maybe once or twice a day tops (which is a lot less than I used too) by the end of next week I’m aiming for every other day. So what should I do now? Just wait it out or shall I send her a message or something. Tomorrow we get our exam results, I was wondering if I should wish her luck or just remain in no contact? Thank you again
Thank you for replying, it made me feel a lot better, I’m trying to show her, the job (he lives of money from his parents) , the holiday, the parties, running a company in the side. Just don’t know how else to show her :L the Facebook stuff I’m over analysing, in my head the only logical reason for her to do what she did was to show the world how happy she is and the lack of response from me made her escalate it :L but again over analysing :L just not sure what to have as a first step still. Thank you, made me feel a lot better
I know that I have no control over their relationship, nor the future, but surely there is something I can do to help my situation. I’m moving forward in all directions in my life, we are about to go off to uni and we have the same first choice (different to his), surely there is a way I can improve my situation, even to make her miss me a little more or have greater positive thoughts about me? I’m not placing all my chips on one number, but there has to be a positive progressive step I can take. Thank you for replying, it’s nice to know I’m not the only person to experience something like this. Just need that first step after NC :L
