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Yeah I know. I realized the huge mistakes I made after it all happened. I don’t know why my mind was clouded at the time but I did the NC for a month and a half which was great because I learned to busy myself and started working out every day and bringing my grades up. I’m not looking for a relationship with him now because I still need time to work on myself but I hope I can be friends with him. It’ll take baby steps but I hope it’ll work out.
I just want to say that you deserve better because you did all you could to keep the relationship. You did nothing wrong at all. Just focus on yourself for now. Realize you need respect because you deserve it. But other than that goodluck!
You’re probably just overthinking things like I am. My ex didn’t respond to me as much on first contact but it was positively and then left me on seen because he was probably busy but the second time I tried we had a longer conversation. Maybe she’s just busy or maybe she needs more time to heal because there’s a high chance she misses you still. Or maybe she doesn’t want to seem clingy and needy and doesn’t answer you as much but whatever it is goodluck with it! I hope everything turns out in your favor. Oh and remember try to do things to distract yourself, try not to think of her as much
I just want to say you should have done the no contact period as soon as you broke up because I feel like you kept being pushy towards her and forcing a relationship and plus she still had the bad memories fresh in her head. Maybe if you did No contact, then doing all the things you did after the breakup would have had a better output but now that that’s happened do no contact and I’m pretty sure you’ll have a positive output because it seems now she on her own messages you and you guys hang out still so with no contact that’ll probably make her miss you more. So goodluck with everything!
I honestly think she’s confused on what she should do. I think you could get back together but you need to take things REALLY slowly so that she builds that trust and she’s more aware of how a relationship with you would be with you guys hanging out once in a while. I think the having sex and kissing and inviting her inside was a bad idea because I believe those were impulse actions because both of you miss each other and you just don’t want a relationship with lust so just take things slow with her. Show her how different the relationship with you would be if you went back together and try to avoid kissing her because you need to build up that wanting for not only you but for her to kiss you. Try to keep her hanging and wanting more of you but also again take it slow and goodluck!!
