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Don’t worry, I’m sure the happiness is just to rub it in your face.
Do yourself a favor, don’t go onto social media for awhile or just mute/block him.
It’ll help alot, trust me, that’s what I’m doing now.
If he knows or realizes that you’re not stalking or checking up on social media, he’ll stop being or showing that he’s “happy”.I don’t know, maybe I am in depression. Maybe looped back a few times over the 6 weeks too. But in every stage, pain is always apparent and I’m just really sick of hurting.
It’s hard not to do anything I havent done with her because…we did everything together. Everything. And I really wish I am important to the friends and family around me…it doesn’t feel that way but I hope I am.
I’m already way past the anger stage. I don’t even know what stage I’m in.
I don’t want to do this so that I want to make her feel guilty or anything like that.
I just don’t want to live with the pain anymore.No, I wanna give up living.
But it’s so hard. It’s like taking another knife in the heart after knowing that she has a new boyfriend. I really hope it’s a rebound.
How would I go on and be positive when it feels like I have nothing left?
Guys, what do I do…
I have lost all hope.She has already gotten a rebound boyfriend….
it has only been 6 weeks since we broke up…
I really want to give up everything.What do I do…
I saw my ex today at work.
Revelation, she now has a new boyfriend. They just started out.
How did I know? I asked the guy myself as if I was never with my ex. Stupid.Now I’m at a new low. What the hell do I do. I have no hope left, nothing left in me actually. 6 weeks was all she took to get a new boyfriend. While I’m here still waiting for her to come back to me.
Stay strong the both of you. I’ve been in NC for 2 weeks now.
The last time we spoke, she told me she’s moved on already, I don’t know how much of it is true but I’m hoping that she’s just saying it for the sake of saying it. We had something so strong that I doubt it’ll take just a month for her to get over it. I believe that she is hurting too but has to stick with the decision because well, she doesn’t want to seem like she’s weak or that she cannot make up her mind, idk.She’ll never come to me on her own I think…but I’m hoping she will.
Does anyone feel like NC is the hardest thing you’ve ever done in your entire life?
I do.I really really want to go back to the days where me and ex just constantly text everyday, every minute, go back to the days when we were so happy and we were just in our very own bubble.
I mean, I have my demons and I have tried to pull away so many times but it was always my ex that pulled me back. The strength she had to deal with my demons was unbelievable but when she ended things 6 weeks ago…she just told me she hated the life we were living and that she doesn’t want to be tied down by me…
Oh yes, my ex has a huge competition coming up. Do I maintain NC or can I wish her good luck?
It’ll get easier, trust me. I’m at day 13, almost 2 weeks. It’s killing me but it’s killing me a lot less than it did when I first broke up 6 weeks ago and I couldn’t control myself.
For me, I’m really afraid that NC will not work. But I really need to focus on myself right now. I miss her like crazy but like I said, it get easier, less painful.
I guess there are weeks that make you feel so hopeless and there are weeks that make you feel okay. But really, do any one of us actually have days or weeks where you feel great? I don’t. I need so much strength just to get through one day.
Me and my ex made it past the honeymoon period and had 21 months of our life together. Our relationship was our longest and most serious ever, so when she decided to end it, it was really bad for me. She seemed okay but I know that inside she’s feeling all shitty and hurt too, just not as bad as me I guess.
I really do wish we get together again someday. We were so right for each other. And I am thankful that I came across this forum, this board. It’s nice to know that there are people out there going through the same thing I am and that we can be there for each other too.
