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Martin,
How did she contact you? Did she just call and you ignored it or did she send you a text message. I guess it all depends on how the contact was initiated. If it was a call, i would continue with the NC. If it was a text, it would depend on what she said. I’d honestly continue to wait, bc if she has feelings i promise you she wont lose them because you didnt answer one text. Girls get annoyed when you don’t contact them back, but that annoyance changes after a while. She might get pissed at first, but if you continue NC, she will start wondering why you’re not answering her back and will eventually try to reconnect again. If she doesn’t, this initial contact really wasn’t going to help you anyway.
Also,
I’m new to this group and would love if someone could give me some advice on my situation.
I just lost the girl of my dreams after 8 years because she fell out of love with me. I think i know the path i must take, but its just so hard when you’re at the beginning of the road.
THanks!
-Pendar
@Lost_and_Confused
My ex texted me saying “Hi, Can I ring?”
I think I will wait and see what happens.
Yeah, i would wait on something like that. It’s not specific enough to get an answer from you.
Yeah. But I am a bit tempted to break NC. I keep thinking that she someone who would just accept that I have moved on and move on as well.
Guys, what do I do…
I have lost all hope.She has already gotten a rebound boyfriend….
it has only been 6 weeks since we broke up…
I really want to give up everything.What do I do…
Dont give up. If its really rebound, it wont last long. Make sure u improve urself and be positive in ur life. After the nc, just be polite, happy and interesting to her but not show like you needy or clingy. Limited yourself to her but u still can support her if she has problem (its like u r more understanding her)
But it’s so hard. It’s like taking another knife in the heart after knowing that she has a new boyfriend. I really hope it’s a rebound.
How would I go on and be positive when it feels like I have nothing left?
@Celtj009
All you can do is control things you have for yourself. You can’t really worry about the things you don’t have control of.Just wait on it, is my best guess.
You have to. Im sure she wants something new on you. Not miserable and sad person.
You mean you want to give up on NC and moved on?
No, I wanna give up living.
Believe me. I used to think like that so that he will feel guilty and realized that its all about him who makes me feel like this but i realized that it wont give me any benefit. It wont help us. In fact, im afraid if you give up living now, she might be guilty at first, but later she will blame you pr think u negatuvely or just be pity. Its not a good thing. Be strong.
I don’t want to do this so that I want to make her feel guilty or anything like that.
I just don’t want to live with the pain anymore.
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