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My ex has had a new boyfriend for 3 months or so now, however she keeps calling me and hanging up prior to me answering and saying it’s an accident. We have also deleted each other from social media however she liked one of my recent instagram posts and then deleted it. I’m confused as to why she’s being so immature but keeps contacting me or finding ways to remind me of her but when she calls she’s like oh I didn’t mean to call you. We have not gone a full 30 days with out her contacting me since we broke up. Anyone have any ideas? Other than her just being immature and not dealing with her issues
She hasn’t been mking jealous comments since I took away all reason for her to contact me at the end of January, she has called me a total of 5 times this week and tried FaceTime but won’t say anything except oh sorry didn’t mean to call you… in my opinion she has no reason too as she supposedly has a new boyfriend and I’ve been seeing other people but so far nothing has worked out… i just don’t understand why she’s being so immature about things that she ended like she walked away I would assume if she’s truly over me and moving on with her life she wouldn’t be the one to keep contacting me.
My ex girlfriend called me at 4 am yesterday and I accidentally declined the call I called her right back but she missed it, she called me back again and was like sorry I didn’t mean to call you… I’m like we haven’t talked in just shy of 30 days and she’s been seeing someone casually who lives the next state over like it’s hard to accidentally call me sober at 4 am on Tuesday… any advice or was this more of a she needed to hear my voice or was thinking of me
Yeah I do agree with the no contact and showing messages I mean we really don’t have any mutual friends but it was more me trying to understand because I’m honestly not good at understanding stuff, I have not reached out to her except to tie up loose ends as I’m trying to grow up and make changes that I need such as seeing a therapist for anxiety issues and learning to be set boundaries with certainty people and taking some money management courses when she told me why we broke up she just said she needed to take care of herself right now and that she was angry with me for multiple reasons but never said why I understand she needed me to mature more so I’m working on that but I guess I’m confused as to why she’s the one reaching out being kinda jealous and childish but can’t be civil if we see each other in person she can’t make eye contact or anything I mean don’t get me wrong I’m not perfect by any means but what woman gives up a guy that cooks cleans helps do her laundry and works 2 jobs…. idk if we broke up just because she needs time to figure herself out and what she wants in life or what… I know she’s not seeing anyone but she works 2 jobs as well and just sits at home doesn’t go out or anything…
I have been no contact with her, she has been the one reaching out and making comments the seem jealous because it’s always about me with another girl. I have tried to be respectful obviously and allow her the space that she needs and also try and focus on growth for me as well I have showed the messages to multiple people for opinions and I’ve gotten a good amount of she still loves me but she’s just not sure where she’s at at the moment… idk just honestly confusing because she’s not the play games type she’s very independent and strong willed so her reaching out to me and asking about what I’m doing or making comments of other girls kinda makes me suspect that she’s really regretting letting me go and is just not sure where she’s at right now
