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  • in reply to: Is it even worth it? #85238
    c.ojohnsonhardy
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    We didn’t live together, but we spoke about moving in together.

    Yep, same guy. Same situation of him saying how happy he was and then just breaking up with me. Thanks for remembering. I am so in awe of this wonderful site and wonderful people.

    I’ll continue no contact, but it is so hard. I just wish I knew what was going into his mind. Why he would break up so suddenly, and doesn’t care to talk to me anymore…

    in reply to: I don't see a reason to try anymore #68431
    c.ojohnsonhardy
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    Dont feel sad.
    I totally understand what you are goin through. I am at 8 days of NC and I am just really struggling.
    I know the feeling of being lost and unsure if this is all worth it. Some days I feel like I can totally do it, others I think about moving on and feelin like i could totally find someone better, and other days I just miss him so much it hurts.

    But Try to focus on yourself. Sooo easier said then done, but take one day at a time… Theres a reason why that person loved you, you are worth it.
    One day, both of us will know the answer and it willfeel so much better. I hopefully garantee it.

    c.ojohnsonhardy
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    Thank you so much for the replies.
    We had a loving romantical exclusive relationship. And I was hesitant because my previous boyfriend was kind of an ass and I just wanted to go slow.

    I agree with both comments. I need to focus on myself and let him realize for himself that he misses me.

    I am just so impatient I guess. I dont want to wait that long. And yes I know the No contact period is supposed to give me some space as well, but I just cant help it. ..

    I realize I also maybe (?) should prepare for the worst, is that he is just not that into me anymore… 🙁

    Thanks again for the comments, i feel a bit more reassured that something positive will come out of it.

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