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March 6, 2017 at 3:08 pm in reply to: I broke up with her, and now after 7 months I want her back #72910
May I ask what finally made you realize that you wanted to be with her?
That sounds almost exactly like my story. My boyfriend was looking at rings and we never ever talked about breaking up. I suffer from depression and very bad anixety. So one day he had an ex girlfriend come into town and he invited her over for dinner. I told him I was okay with it and even helped prepare dinner. Stupid me was so uncomfortable the whole night as they joked and talked. I left and when he came over to my place I told him I needed a few days to myself to work on myself. He grew very upset and he told me he didn’t think we needed time. So the next day at work, I called him and told him he was right I was being dramatic. Next thing you know he breaks up with me for good. He’s been deleteing our social media post. He is moving on so quick. I don’t understand. We were so well. I learned yesterday that he had a lot of issues within himself that he’s working on. So I’m starting no contact and it’s so hard. It’s hard to see him moving on so fast. I’m hoping we will work out. Stay strong and give him time. My friend explained how it was probably very hard for him to leave me. But love is unselfish so if it’s true love, if I give him this time he will come back to me. So give it time and try not to think of it as a breakup. (Even if he’s moving on) think of it as a trial run. Let him miss you and let him have good memories. Stay strong and I have faith your man will come back to you. You just don’t give up on what y’all had. If you were living together, it was serious. Those memories will never change.
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