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So my ex has made contact through email and basically said I was her life and future and that she is heartbroken but also that she is seen someone and she needs to stop thinking about me can anyone give me any advice please
So pretty much done the 4 weeks no contact then I wrote a letter and sent a email to my ex I was not expecting a reply but she did reply saying I don’t realise how bad I have hurt her saying I ruined her and she gets angry every time she thinks about it , I am still getting help about my problems I have and even speaking to a relationship counceller cause I don’t want to hurt her again if I somehow got a chance , but with this reply any advice what I should do next
I’m glad you are happy mate but some situations are different my ex has changed her number and block s me of everything and I’m 3 weeks in to nc and don’t stand a chance I don’t think how bad was your situation before tgis
I understand what you mean and as much as I miss her I am going to leave her and sort myself out so thank you for taking the time to answer me very much appreciated .
I am going to to that like I said before i am just worried she is going to fall out of love with me while I am doing it cause I no it will take me a while , I will stop bothering you with my problems now thank you
Yeah I definetly sabotaged it with how I think and now I’m scared I can’t reverse it my ex knows I’m not a bad person and have a few problems but with been blocked and cut out her life she can’t see I’m doing everything to change it and never took drugs in my life and I have stopped drinking even tho I am more a weekend drinker than all the time
I have suffered from anxiety for many years endless trips to hospital thinking I’m having a heart attack or cancer or anything in and out of councelling and all sorts of different medicines and when me and my ex were very very happy this year I work over and over In my head that it won’t last and something will go wrong it’s like one big circle it does my head in so as you can see how I think that’s why all I can think at min even tho I need to work on myself I worry she will get over me In This no contact time , I have a strange chain of thought for everything .
Last question then I will crack on trying to sort myself out from a women’s view could that month push someone to fall out of love with you ? Last question I promise ha
Yeah we live in the same town but I have not seen her and not made any contact in 7 days now I’m just worried the first month of ringing has pushed her to far and she won’t miss me atal but I suppose everyone in my situation and I am going to get my anxiety sorted cause I think that is the main reason for the way I have been and I need to sort myself out even if I never get her back .
From a ladies point of view does this no contact really work we had a great relationship but all I keep thinking is she is going to forget about me in this month even tho I no she loved me deeply
And we broke up at the start of December so just over a month ago but I rang a lot in the first month only this week have I started no contact and I’m not defending myself but she knows I’m not an aggressive person I never ever get angry and I hate myself enough for the cheating cause I have never done it to anyone before and this time I got stupidly drunk and made the worst mistake of my life
Thank you and yeah we loved together for 5 years and I would t say she is scared of me she knows I have never got physical in my life I’m not a angry person and she knows that it was more a little little nudge out the way I would never hit a women
