Should I try or have I lost it

@braveheart1

Since she doesn’t want you to contact her, please make serious efforts to get help for your thinking patterns. It will take some time and then later on, if she agrees to talk to you or see you, you can show and prove those changes. For now, it’s important to focus on yourself and try not to worry about the future. By the way, my sister started out as a weekend drinker. She spent weekends alone because people didn’t want to be around her as she displayed so much negativity. Her friends got tired of it and knew they couldn’t help her. She had to help herself.

@braveheart – Think of it this way, she doesn’t want to be with you now the way you are so making improvements is a giant positive step. I know you’re concerned she is going to fall out of love, but love does not fade away quickly. Please try to stop thinking about her and think about you and the changes you want to make. When you’re better and in control of your emotions and behaviors, she might want to reunite or she might not. No one can predict the future. We all have to take it one day at a time. The most important thing is you will feel better in the long run.

@braveheart1 – You’re welcome and I pray all goes well for you.