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Hey Laura
How have you been doing? I’ve been thinking about taking a trip as well. It’s been almost two months since my break and I’ve had so many ups and downs since. I’ve lost 15lbs since my break up and it’s mostly because I don’t have an appetite. I just started hitting the gym myself and thought I might as well make something of this weight loss. Im finally getting used to being on my own again but I still miss and want her. I know I need to keep moving forward without her. Hiking has been very therapeutic for me and I’ve been doing that lately. I hope you’re feeling better and I hope I get there soon.I’m in a similar situation as far why we broke up and maybe I partied too much though. We would text here and there through January but I realized it was only causing me more self doubt and pain and was not able to move on. So I backed off and stopped contact and she continued to contact me about once a week and she finally stopped. I never told her that I would be cutting contact but I think she realized that I was trying to better myself. I only know that I’m not able to move on by being in contact with her. I still want her in my life but it’s just not a good time while I’m trying to heal.
Shes obviously following no contact because she is trying to heal as well. I would just give it more time, but like some one told me “you don’t want to wait around for her to come back because what if she never does.” That would be even more painful. I still want my ex back and I’m sure she still thinks about me but I agreed why she broke up with me and I’ve been trying to accept it. I just want to be 100 percent confident that I will be fine and will be able to move on when I try to reconnect with her. I keep reading how no contact is for YOU and not HER and that’s how I’m trying to approach it. It’s still very difficult. I want to contact her everyday but I have to keep moving forward. Good luck brother
