I understand what you’re trying to say but my ultimate goal is to have him back as what this website claims to be helpful for. This is my day 5 of NC, since we work together, i only talk about work when i have to. I fully understand I need to focus and improve myself, so I appear very positive and joyful at work unlike how i was the first couple of days after we broke up. I know I cannot make him miss me but as this website says, NC should make him miss me or wonder what I’ve been thinking. I’m just wondering if this will still eventually happen to him (thinking about me) if we still see each other at work?