Boards Reconciliation When to send him the Magic Letter?

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    saree48
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    So I’m doing Relationship Rewind. I have gathered a lot of information and recent personal experience and as of last night, I have concluded that my [ex] partner is truly indifferent towards me and my advances.

    This now opens the door for the Magical Letter. Because he is indifferent, I have to make the decision to contact HIM with the Magical Letter, though because he moved just the other day without informing me, I want to write it down on paper, take a picture, and to send it through a mms message.

    When is the best possible time tobsend this letter? Should I wait a few days after writing it all out after finishing Relationship Rewind, or a week or so longer? I knowbthat the longer I wait, the more indifferent he becomes, but I don’t want to send it too early or too late.

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    Sunshine11
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    I know that Relationship Rewind you have a false friendship, but how long have you been no contact?

    #15466
    saree48
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    Well because Relationship Rewind requires that you wait until HE comes to ME, the No Contact Rule applies only until he contacts me by phone, text, facebook, etc. But because he is now indifferent and has taken specific steps to remove me and his emotions for me from his life, I now have to take action through the “Magic Letter” to reverse his indifference and then start a False Friendship.

    But the book isn’t clear about how long to wait until sending him the letter to reawaken those feelings he’s been denying. If I wait a month, a lot of the things that the process requires to be said will not make sense if I wait longer than a week from now. I was just curious about when I should send it because I don’t want to wait too long, nor do I want to be too soon. I am genuinly scared we are over and despite my skepticism in this technique, I CANNOT help but continue to try getting him back. This better be worth my money… lol

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    Sunshine11
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    Just do it. If he really is indifferent, it will be hard. But send the letter or take some other action. It sounds like if the door is open, then now is the time to take action. Everything will be okay in the end.

    #15471
    saree48
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    Thank you. Once I’ve finished the book (which should be tomorrow at the earliest), then I will begin constructing the letter. This will take about a day or two, but definitely worth the time and effort that will be put into it. Once it is finished, I will review it a few times to make sure itappeals to his emotuons just perfectly, and then send it off. Thank you! The reassurance is always a great remedy here.

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