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Okay so I was casually dating a guy and I’ve really fallen for him. I’ve got some issues and I was really mean to him.
Anyway we met on Friday and I was super drunk, I didn’t want to kiss him but we slept together, he said I make him feel rubbish and ugly and I am too moody, I asked him if he’ll see me again he said we will see. He’s ignored me since but hasn’t deleted me on anything and views all my social media. I know I’ve made a huge mistake because he’s lovely. I also think I’ve been too full on. He wanted to really get to know me properly. I’m gonna go NC anyway for myself but I just hope he does come back and talk again. Surely the fact he hasn’t deleted me was something.
I don’t think it will work, I know it really hurts.
You have’t been together long enough for him to have an impression of who you are. One negative experience can destroy 10 positive ones in the beginning stages of a relationship.
It sounds most like you never got over your last ex, didn’t fix the problems that destroyed that last relationship and because of that, treated this new man poorly.
Curiosity, him viwing your social media is not the same thing as him being interested still
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I didn’t message the guy, but he randomly messaged today saying “just leave me alone for a bit please”That’s great, no more confusion where you stand. You are free now, let’s both stop making silly mistakes. We will be ready the next time.
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