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I’m having ahrd time too. Very shitty week. Again. Like when am I gonna have a good week for once? My ex told me he doesn’t want a girlfriend but a friend. And yet he said he was depressed the whole time without me, and now his fb statuses are depressing…I’m having this feeling that he’ll come back, again. but oh well. I’m done trying.
@lolita Ouff thats a hard one :/ this guy is hot and cold he loves you but dosent know what to do :/ he is very confused im his actions when he acts like this just be as cold to him block him on fb and let him feel the pain tell him that this was the last time he got to break your heart and if he desperetly tries to win you back (meaning cant let him win easy) then you know fkr sure he is yours
@confused girl your guy is also confused,,dont forget that its a slow process! Atleast he did come back and he did admit to his love for you but you werent ready you never really worked on yourself and it back fired now you are over thinking! Take a breather and access the situation with and “out of the box” mindsetYou girls can get your guys back, the fight was never over when you thought it was, your getting them back slowly but you need to work harder, go and see how to deal with hot and cold and read the other slides as well get some info and fight!
Im jealous of yall i dont see my ex coming back, she did not wish me a happy b day, today i added her back on facebook and snap chat.. trying to become friends again and start fresh!
My ex doesn’t want me. he doesn’t want a girlfriend, but I know he does want me, I do believe he is confused, and I think he’s scared of hurting me again. His recent fb statuses sound depressing (which is his own fault…) I have a feeling he’ll come back. idk when, but I just kinda have a feeling. It’s seriously been a terrible week, and I just want my allergies to fuck off, cause they’re making my head congested and my throat hurt. So yeah, that was my shitty week.
Well my ex just wished me happy b day, she said she had a flash yesterday around 1pm and did not txt cuz she was at work, we talked a bit aught up on things and i ended the convo by saying “i have to go goodbye my dear we will talk soon” she replied with “allright my dear”
I wish I had mine back…I wish he didn’t do what he did yesterday 🙁 I think the fact that he text me friday night is a good sign. what do you think though?
Im so happy for you sam!!! I told you she would write! It was nice the way you ended the conversation. Wait maybe till next week to write to her again to just like check in!
Im really happy for you and i hope everything goes well from now on, keep it cool and casualI will but same to you lolita dont give up! Although i met a new girl same type as my ex (meaning my kind) and i feel like my ex is out of reach for now ill become friends with her cuz i want to look out for her but idk if i want more
i don’t want to give up, but i have to show him that i have. I can’t fall back into his trap even his aunt told me to do so. I know we won’t get back together anytime soon for now. The other girl has him trapped in her arms, at least nobody in his family wants to meet her at all! His uncle told me that he is in a face and that he’ll get over it, but eveytime it seems like he’s having more and more fun with her. They are doing things we didn’t do, like he has more fun with her family than with mine 🙁
Ive searched for hot and cold ex’s, but i can’t seem to find hot and cold ex’s who is in a relationship with someone else…
if any of you have any advice on how to handle this please let me know! OR HELP ME SEARCH FOR SOME INFO!
As of right now I’m not looking into anything he’s doing, he’s out of my life completely. I’ll see him everyday though except mondays because we have clases at the same time..
Do you guys think there’s still a chance to get mine back..for good…I know there’s still something there adn I know he still loves and wants me…
@lolita try these
8 Signs That Mean Your Ex Wants You Back (Despite Being Scared)
8 Sneaky Signs Your Ex Still Loves You (Even If They Say They Hate You)
@confused girl we try to help you but you dont listen! Your guy loves you, you need to take things slow! Dont overthink his actions he is simply confused! When he acts cold be cold, when he is warm be warm just stop over reacting, over thinking, over doing! Even change your mindset and help us out as well cuz there is not only you here…Did you read what I said what happened this weekend? It went from good to shit. I know he still wants me and loves me, I think he’s confused
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