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You are not a physco! you were heartbroken and done anything to be with her! You can have as many bad moments as you wish I’m here to pick you up, it is amazing progress keep strong.
I have to give it time, Ive let him go now so it does make it easier to move forward.
I’ve told my date I don’t want to see him again I’m not ready even for dates…I’ll still go out with friends and enjoy myself 🙂
Haha, yes, the same happened with my date. I am not too bothered. It’s just nice to have company, but would feel weird getting into a relationship with someone else.
I think this is more like a marathon, in that at times we will feel like we can’t go on and lose hope, but we can do it! Day 16 is tomorrow, and with each day we can grow stronger!
I am still waiting to see if she unblocks me from facebook. Maybe she won’t until she is back in the UK for around a month. I think she thinks I have stopped texting her, as I know she is back in her home country. So, I need to take it really slowly.
I don’t want to lead him on,it is nice but when your fully there it’s not right.
I can’t believe its 16 days tomorrow, Im up & down but Im having more ups than downs at the moment so that’s progress also.
I’m the same but I think she will when she’s back and away from him.
We both need to take things slow, we are still healing
We do. As I said, we ruined it ourselves. It is up to us to mend things and be the person they fell in love with. They probably dream to meet those people we were again. No one can replace us.
Here’s hoping we did ruin it but we can get back to the people we were.
I just think he’s not bothered if I ever get in touch again 🙁
It is natural to feel that way. But I think you will be pleasantly surprised. You have a history, that is so valuable. Those memories will always be there and he will miss you.
It is I suppose! we do have a history but sometimes that might not be enough.
Its quite hard to know what he is thinking and in a way I’m glad of this NC so I don’t constantly feel rejected.
Thanks @Libertine1 you have given me the boost I needed 🙂
He is definitely thinking of you, as he is not sure he can have you anymore due to your silence. We all want what we Cannot have 🙂
A little better thanks! I looked at her Facebook today and she has changed her profile photo to a sad on, which is unusual. She last did this after we broke up. Also, she has made this picture public. Usually she will make photos private straight away.
This could also be due to the fact that her long term boyfriend before me recently got into a new rerelationship. She and him broke up around 10 months before we met.
But her behaviour is changing, which can only be good.
How about you? I am learning so much from no contact! Restraint is so important sometimes.
I’m glad your feeling a little better! Ohhh really her behaviour is definitely changing and if she made it public she wanted you to see it, has she unblocked you then?
I doubt its about him! It is good.
I’m doing ok, This NC has really helped I don’t feel rejected or hurt, just concentrating on me.
Cannot believe it’s Day 16 I feel like I can achieve anything.
Ha, no she hasn’t unblocked me yet. But she knew I had another account and can see it. Although she may not be certain that I do anymore. But yea, I will not read too much into it. But it’s nice when forgets about her Facebook lockdown.
I know, day 16! More than halfway to 30! We will definitely return as better people. I am so glad that you are feeling better now 🙂 and he will be back.
What are you doing today?
Well then she was definitely hoping you would see it! She is missing you because it was not her choice so she’s starting to see that.
I’m definitely going to achieve the 30, let him see that I am serious about not contacting him. We will return stronger and more positive.
I have a few loose ends to tie up in work as today is my last day, I start my new job on Monday, you?
Ha, thanks. Well, I won’t analyse it. She hasn’t unblocked me yet, and there could be many reasons. I think she does like the other guy. Bit I know what we had was speciaL and did not die. But I will keep positive! The main thing is that her attitude changes towards me.
I am sure your ex is already thinking ‘where is she and why has she not got in touch?’
Thay is great news with your new job. Today I have a long busy day haha. I cannot believe we made it this far!
Exactly if you analyse everything you would go crazy! I’m happy your not reading too much into it. You both had something special and that’s hard to let go! yes her attitude is changing and she is also thinking what’s happened to you.
Oh I don’t know if he is! Again I don’t think he’s bothered if I ever get in touch again.
Thank you, it’s all about the new me. Keeping busy helps, me either I wouldn’t have got this far without your help 🙂
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