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  • January 27, 2015 at 3:20 pm #26944
    Libertine1
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    Thanks Caz, like I said, they were still in love with us. Being needy, desperate and mean cannot change that.

    I just saw the text she sent me, the morning on the day we were supposed to meet up for closure, she said:

    ‘Can’t. Will work. You rest today. Tc.’

    So short and cold. If she could have given me the closure, it would have been fine.

    Hey, day 15 tomorrow and we are halfway through!

    January 28, 2015 at 3:12 am #27064
    Caz15
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    Hey @Libertine1 Day 15 can you believe it.

    How are you feeling today?

    It is difficult when you have no closure but give it time & it will all make sense 🙂

    January 28, 2015 at 3:51 am #27068
    patrick d
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    @caz15 check out my Topic. I Need advice please.

    January 28, 2015 at 4:36 am #27076
    Libertine1
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    I knOw! I cannot quite believe it. Yet I also feel distant from her, like she is no longer alive,if that makes sense?

    How about you?

    January 28, 2015 at 5:08 am #27082
    Caz15
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    I agree with you totally, I feel that way too like he’s no longer exists!

    I’m doing ok today, got an urge last night but I didn’t

    January 28, 2015 at 6:20 am #27095
    Libertine1
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    What brought on the urge? We are halfway there now. I am looking forward to a holiday in April and plan to maybe send her the letter afterwards.

    January 28, 2015 at 6:35 am #27101
    Caz15
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    I have no idea, I think because it’s the longest we haven’t spoken.

    Moment of weakness but I’m so glad I didn’t.

    The holiday will do you good and help clear your head before the magic letter.

    January 28, 2015 at 9:54 am #27162
    Libertine1
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    Keep positive. Yes, I think a holiday would put me in a good frame of mind before sending.

    I think we all have moments of weakness. Today, for example I felt angry again and wanted revenge! But these things are good and expected as we heal. How is your Day?

    January 28, 2015 at 9:59 am #27167
    Caz15
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    I’m just feeling it’s done and dusted now, this is the longest we haven’t spoken and if he wanted to work on it he would have text me by now.

    You will feel angry and want to break her heart like she has yours but like you said it’s all about healing.

    My day has been good, catching up with old friends, how has yours been?

    January 28, 2015 at 10:42 am #27178
    Libertine1
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    From reading the success stories, on a lot of occasions it takes more than 2 weeks for an ex to get back in touch, so stay positive!

    Yes, of course. Well she cheated on my and obviously didn’t care about my feelings, as she got with that guy. It feels like she values me so little and does not care about hurting. And to make things worse, she ignores me. It’s so belittlin and sad, especially as we were in love 🙁

    How could she do that to me?

    Today has been Ok. I have kept busy again. Be positive though. You are no longer thought of as desperate. That is a step forward. He probably misses you.

    January 28, 2015 at 11:11 am #27183
    Caz15
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    Ohh I know it will take more than 2 weeks but I thought I would have even got a “hi” text or something.

    It is hard when your ex cheated but it won’t last long and it will all get to much for her as she was forced by her parents.

    I’m being positive I just don’t think he cares

    January 28, 2015 at 11:29 am #27188
    Libertine1
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    Well I text my ex for 3 months with no response at all.

    Maybe they both need space and time.

    I have saved her on my phone as ‘space, time and understanding’

    Patience is key.

    January 28, 2015 at 11:32 am #27189
    Caz15
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    Oh really that must have been really hard, she will definitely be thinking what’s happened to you!

    I know just feeling like he’s gone & moved on.

    January 28, 2015 at 12:16 pm #27202
    Libertine1
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    Well I text my ex for 3 months with no response at all.

    Maybe they both need space and time.

    I have saved her on my phone as ‘space, time and understanding’

    Patience is key.

    In my mind, she is thinking ‘thank god that psycho has left, now he can leave me and my new boyfriend in peace’

    Sorry, a bad moment. But atleast I will not text her, which is progress.

    January 28, 2015 at 12:17 pm #27203
    Libertine1
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    He definitely hasn’t moved on.too soon. Give it time

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