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Yes,give it time 🙂 she will come back to this country again soon, although I am scared she will miss the other guy 🙁 or that things went too far in my craziness. I was so crazy.
Today is good, I am at work and am quite busy, as I have lots of meetings to attend.
How about you?
She will not miss the other guy if she is back in your area! we all did things that were nutty at the end but we’re not them people anymore.
I’m the same, keeping busy at work & still texting my date 🙂
I think she will try & get in contact when she returns, keep positive.
I hope so, but maybe she thinks that I haven’t text her, because she is in a foreign country. This is why I want to wait longer.
I hope she makes contact and remembers how we had such an amazing time.
But yes, positivity is the main thing. Time and space work to our advantag, allowing them to miss us. And then we have th the magic letter. So there is plenty of opportunity!
She will in time and she is back, we will get them back 🙂
I am so happy that your doing well today
We are but have done well to make it 14 days and starting to let our anger and issues behind and moving forward.
If anything does happen you will be the 1st to know 🙂
Ok, going through a hard time again. Going to a meeting and had to do the same route we took on our first date to canary wharf…it’s hard for me. She lives just outside London, so she is not surrounded by the memories like I am 🙁 i miss her so much. It wasn’t supposed to happen, what her parents did was so wrong.
This is completely ok, of course memories will come flooding back and they are hard to focus on anything.
You are doing brilliantly, she still has memories of you.
Talk to me and tell me what you saw and remember, it helps to get it all out in the open.
Just our first date. The chemistry was there from day one. We did so much on that date, and had such fun. It was on a wonderful sunny day. Then after that we had more amazing dates and she became scared I would leave her. That was her number fear throughout, that I would leave her. She thought I was too good. I just cannot get my mind around how it came to this situation 🙁
You can have this 1st date again! keep thinking forward, if she’s ever there she will remember all of this.
You need to put this in a text when she replys after the magic letter.
Say “just drove past Canary wharf today for a meeting, sun was shining reminded me of our 1st date”
Thanks Caz! I think I may very well do that. She has been so brainwashed by her parents. And I proved them correct by my behaviour 🙁
No need for thanks, do bring back up happy memories! she has been but everyone deserves a 2nd chance and I know you can do it 🙂
Thanks Caz 🙂 I no longer have the urge to message her, which is great, as it did develop into an obsession. But I now feel so down. I am not the guy she fell in love with and I ended up being spiteful and humiliating her. Sometimes I question how she could possibly still love me. But this is just a passing moment, and I am sure she may have those same moments.
I bet our exes still think about us a great deal. We just need to make coming back to us worth their while. We need to be who we were before, but better.
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