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My ex broke up with me in September, im 100% certain she has been manipulating me from that point until now. Shes been dating and seeing other guys but keeping me on her string and seeing me from time to time. We hooked up several times and she even said she wanted to work on getting back together.
Lot of nasty things happened in the past 8 months since the breakup, mainly due to her lies and manipulations. She played me. Finally went No contact for nearly a month. 2 weeks before our last convo and the start of NC she she still wanted to work on things, but due to things that happened (me finding out she was getting emotionally involved with another) we got into an altercation and I deaded her for another 2 weeks. During those two weeks she met another guy from Florida who was visiting his parents for easter. She calls me two weeks later and tells me she is moving down to Florida with her friend Michelle. I find out that was a lie and that shes really moving down for him, but she still wouldn’t admit it.
I confronted her about it on the phone on may 12th, at the end of the conversation she wished me nothing but the best but told me she doesn’t want to speak to me moving forward, so i gave her the space. That was may 12th. I got a call from her on june 1st, but i didn’t pick up on purpose. Wasn’t ready. Today she called a few hours ago, So i picked up.
We had a dog together during the relationship that she took with her when she moved out. When she called today, and broke the NC since may 12th, she asked if I could take the dog in because she said “where i am moving to does not allow dogs”. I asked her when shes moving and she replied “i’m kind of already moved here. I wont be back up there for months and my parents don’t want to look after the dog.” I didn’t give her an answer, told her i would think on it. I’m assuming this is a manipulation play on her part. I know that guy frankie has a dog, so clearly dogs are allowed at his place (once again, she is not aware that i KNOW shes with him).
She loves the dog, and i know she would never let it go back into a shelter, so i’m thinking she is hoping I take the dog in so she can have a reason to contact me and see me moving forward all while keeping this new guy hush hush. I miss the dog, and i’d love to take it, but not if it becomes a means for her to further string me along.
Can you prove that the dog is yours? If so then surely there is something you can do to get it back without interacting with her.
The dog is hers on paper as she signed for it when we adopted it. But considering she hasn’t called me back about the dog situation in 4 days, its pretty clear this wasn’t an emergency situation. She is diagnosed as manic bi-polar, which probably played a big part in her breaking up with me outside of the mistakes I have made during our relationship. I’m starting to believe she simply called to see if she was still blocked, and to see if I would pick up for her after 26 days of NC. She most likely brought that up in the case I actually picked up, so it wouldn’t seem as of she’s calling for no reason.
She moved her entire life to florida for a guy she didn’t even know for a full month. Clearly something isn’t right with her. Can’t believe anything she says, even her reasons for calling me.
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