So I’ve asked her to meet up, and the exchange went as follows.
“Hey, what days are you off next week? Want to see what you think of meeting up and getting some lunch or dinner? Just to hang out and catch up a bit.”
“Well I can’t next week my days off are to celebrate my bday but I’ll let you know what my schedule looks like the following week”
Think I’m being passively blown off here, or does she really want to and really doesn’t have the time? Personally, I’m just going to wait and see what happens.