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June 10, 2018 at 4:29 am #104255
sallys
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Hi everyone,

I’ve written about my relationship and my break up in the reconciliation board, so if you could read my thread there before commenting here I would greatly appreciate it 🙂

I decided to start no contact almost a week ago, but today my ex sent me multiple texts (just updates on his life and he asked how I’m doing). Like I mentioned in my previous posts, he’s a sweetheart and our relationship overall was super healthy. I see the value of no contact but I’m wondering in my situation if it’s best? And if it is, can I at least reply to his texts just letting him know that I’m taking time and space to accept the break up?

Thank you in advance! 🙂
June 10, 2018 at 9:51 am #104258
Saadcrackz
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If you want to move on then yes you should do no contact, unless you think you can still detach yourself from him while being friends, just send him a message telling him you are going to cut off all communication and then start no contact until you move on completely
June 10, 2018 at 12:42 pm #104259
sallys
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Hi Saadcrackz,

Thank you for reassuring me about no contact! I almost texted him back last night but I’m glad I waited to get someone else’s advice. I’ll send him that text and give an update 🙂
June 10, 2018 at 8:06 pm #104428
sallys
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So I texted him back saying I need space and time so I won’t be responding to his texts, and he said he understands but also said “I am here if you wanna chat.” I think my lack of contact is working but he’s expecting me to chase him. This is a good sign, right?
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