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Hi everyone,
Haven’t talked with you guys for a while now haha sorry, I’ve been busy with school. NC was able definitely able to make me feel stronger, more independent, and the feeling of single again. Summer school has just ended for me, and now I’m free! Two days ago, I’ve asked if she wanted to get back with me and she said ok. I’ve asked her about the other guy and I’ve let her know the problems that I’ve had. I told her that if she has any problems she has to let me know so we don’t end up like before. She seemed to agree with me on everything and I think the most important thing is to just enjoy the moment with her and build more happy moments together. Life is too short to always be stressed out about problems and it is just better to enjoy it.
Thank you for those who have been rooting for me and giving me advice and thank you Kevin for your emails, they have been really helpful. This site has brought me hope when I felt down and I’m grateful to have met you guys. Rihanna, Dara, a.z., David, it’s been nice meeting you guys, I hope you guys are doing well. I’m happy to see that many of you have moved on and for those who haven’t yet, I know over that overtime, you will find bliss in your journey.
OMG,OMG,OMG,OMG yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeey.congratulatiooooooons Edwaaaaard.i’m really happy for you.you made it.i was sure about it.i’m really proud of you and we re gonna miss you.you can’t imagine how happy i am.
Wish you all the best with your relationship buddy 🙂LA
Do it if you think its really necessary but don’t apologize too much it looks awkward itself.Thanks a.z. for being there for me, it was great reading your stories and watching you grow with improvements. I’m glad that you’re able to finally be happy without him. The important one is you, it’s how you feel, your life and decisions. It’s great to feel free isn’t it? I have felt that way since June and life just feels beautiful. I’m sure that one day you will find someone you deserve, you two will be happy together because of what you’ve learned here. I’m happy for you too a.z., keep up the good work.
Thank you very much Edward,i’m really fine.
Thank you for always being there for me.you are an amazing person.Congrats Edward!!! I’m so happy that things worked out well for you.
A note on my situation- my ex has already started something with the girl he dated before me. I always wondered about it and brought it up a few times. Oh well, I guess it definitely is time to completely move on. I’m thinking about doing NC permanently. I don’t really have anything to say to him at all at this point and there’s too much broken trust for me to give friendship an honest try. I’m going to have to see him occasionally due to our friends but I feel like I should be done other than that.Hi Edward,
I don’t know you but happy to hear that you worked things out with your ex. I’m currently in NC. I’ll finish it next next week. Any tips? Did you write the letter? What worked for you? And what didn’t?
Thank you in advance
I also read in your comment that there was”another guy” that was with your ex or something like that. How did you come about that? I am in the current situation. I know my ex hasn’t moved on but she’s currently talking to someone. I ran into them yesterday. So now I have to win her over from this other guy too. So any tips/advice would greatly be appreciated
Dear “Old Guys”,
I hadn’t read posts on the wall of the main site for a while. I read some of them today. It looks like most of those who came with us (and after myself) are moving on! I remember when Brett and Chris!
Yeah, I have read those comments so far through email notifications that I got! To my understanding success here has two shapes; 1-get him/her back, 2-don’t care anymore. I see that almost everyone has been successful!
Hi IA,
I did write the letter, I handwrote it and gave it to her in person. In the letter I’ve mentioned my feelings for her and appreciated everything she’s done for me. I have told her how great of a gf she was. She was holding hands with another guy after our breakup and I felt miserable, I couldn’t stop thinking about what they were doing everyday. As time passed, I’ve read some advices from this website and talked to friends about my situation, I have realized that I needed some self respect. I had to change in a positive way and be happy even though I may lose her. Having this abundant mindset has definitely made me less needy. If you want to reconcile with your ex, I think there are a couple of key factor you have to be aware of. You have to ask yourself are you currently ready for her to take you back? What is your plan to get her back? How can you show her without coming out needy? There are many questions, but the answers come along the way. I found out that the more I’ve thought about the other guy and my ex, the more false assumptions came through, even though some were true, it was affecting my mental health and I can’t feel that way if I want her back. You can easily win her back from the other guy because you two shared many happy moments together. Take this week to write a sincere letter, don’t be afraid if she doesn’t take you back. That’s how you will show that you’ve changed and it will make her attracted to you over time. And even if it doesn’t, NC has made you stronger to make you realize that you deserve someone better if she doesn’t take you back. I hope all goes well between you two and it really seems like you have a chance, don’t think about the other guy, feel confident that you’ll get her back. How you feel will affect how you act around others.
IA,
I agree with Edward. You can win her back if you grow strong and confident. So confident that eventually you don’t care about her and her personal life. Your mind should be as clear as pure water; no rage, no anger, no fear, no jealousy, no insecurity, no jittery; nothing! Work hard on your mind, work hard on your body. Be sincere to yourself and write a sincere letter as Edward said!
I believe Edward has done great job!
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