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This is why you need to do NC you’re not helping yourself contracting her, you’re hurting yourself
Point one:
She can’t break trust if you two aren’t together. That’s assuming you’re speaking of her attractiont to this other guy. You can’t let that cause animosity toward her or a possible future. Trust me, I felt betrayed when my ex slept with her rebound. After I was able to step back, I understood that we weren’t together, and if I want a happy future with her…I can’t hold it against her. Our exes go through pain too. They want human connection like we do. They just don’t see it with us right now, so they try to find it with someone else. It would show a lot of maturity if you try to understand that.
Point two:
You should make it known to her that you know her better than this other guy ever could. 7yrs is a long time to create a strong bond. Talk about things that let her know you know her. For example, if she’s into theater, sports, art, music.. just work it in a conversation. Just let her know you understand her needs and wants and interests. tell her you want a future with no bad arguments, with nothing but love and caring.
Idk. I feel like she has feelings for you. And a lot of our exes have the same thing going on. They’re trying to fill the void with someone else.
How were you able to tell that she still has feelings for me. When lately she just has been telling me to move on. And that her attention now is with this guy. That her mind was refreshed because of him. She even told me that he accepted her for who she is. And i think thats the number one reason why she was able to divert her attention to him.
She has really been persistent in asking me to move on.. Probably because she does not need my attention anymore because of him..
If you two were a serious couple for 7yrs, she still has feelings. She may not be in love, but she still loves you.
She may be telling you to move on so she can pursue this other guy guilt free. It’s a rebound. Plain n simple. The only thing you can do is make really positive changes and be confident.
Once you put your attention to something or someone else, she might come running back. A great thing would be for her to see another girl into you. Dont be overly eager to make her jealous, but ppl cant stand it when their former toys are being picked up by someone new.
My ex says she doesnt want to pursue a relationship but seems overly concerned if she knows another girl has my attention. She knows im not strongly interested in anyone right now so she has experienced the full blow of me being with someone. She will soon tho. 🙂
Oh yeah…
If she is going to rub your sad emotional state in your face.. go NC. You deserve better than that.
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