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Aww that’s really sweet! I did that with mine before he went abroad for the year-I had put photos in of our holidays the year before, festivals we went to…everything! He loved it and took it travelling with him 🙂 i was going to update it when it was our 3 year anniversary (which I’ve actually just remembered is this Monday….yikes 🙁 )
I haven’t had time to yet-was going to this weekend if that’s okay! 🙂
Yeah, I wouldn’t worry about it. I know that with my final exams, a family friend having cancer myself and other bits,sometimes life just pre-occupies you. Give her time and she’ll appreciate it 🙂 well done though, you’re doing really really well!! 😀
wow, how long were you with yours? that’s amazing! and of course that is okay haha!
ive bought lots of bits and bobs to just spruce up the journal and make it seem as personal as possible! 😀I was with mine 2 years 10 months :/ crazy! and then we were best friends/hooking up for a year on/off beforehand, then got together, then he went away for 11 months, we went travelling together for 6 weeks, got back home and spent 8 months blissfully happy until he broke up with me-sigh! 🙁
He hasn’t opened my snap yet-getting anxious :S
Yeah sounds good! Will sort out over wkend 🙂that’s amazing! it sounds like you both were pretty strong together and keen to make it work! your coping so well through this though, especially after this long of being together! seriously! and dont worry about the snap chat thing. theres no way he wouldnt be curious :):)
amy and thargus, can you tell me what you think of this? we were going to an event tomorrow but it is a bit expensive… would i come out needy and ruin things if I went? tell me wha you think please :/ we are now texting about it I need to decide
read from my message today, april 24 pls https://ebpforums.com/boards/topic/he-says-he-would-like-to-get-back-but/page/18/
before i even read that, im going to tell you one thing. is the expense and the cost of money worth your relationship? there is an obvious answer that we all know and you know what to do. of course its worth the expense if you truly love them 🙂
of course it is! but he knows I dont work, and that its money hard to spare. I’m coming off too needy? I need to pay for my gym and other stuff and I still dont have a job. Its hard money to spend tbh
Thing is, thats a decision you have to make since I can’t tell you how to spend your money :/ but if it helps at all, it is most definitely not needy in any way. If you REALLY cant afford it, its really okay that you cannot go 🙂 he may even miss you a tad more knowing you could have gone ! 🙂
don’t feel that way. trust me. coming from a guy, and i want you to really believe this, he is no more nervous than you are. if not more. if i had a snapchat like that off my ex, bloody hell. i would be shocked for a start and personally i would need to calm down a tad before i reply or i would reply something stupid. lol
I hope so, I feel a bit silly now though 🙁
Though my friend and I did a test, where we both uploaded different snapchat stories at the same time as we both have him on there. We were at a hockey tournamement, so I put one up of my feet and stick on the astro with a little “uh oh!!” Comment underneath, and when we checked an hour later turned out he had looked at mine and not at hers! So I guess that’s good…maybe? :/
I don’t know, I guess I assumed that he would have snapped me back or would have at least have seen it as a way we could maybe start being able to talk to each other again :/I’ll stay positive though-try to at least!
okay heres the deal, its obvious especially being as though im a guy also, he is curious at what you are doing. i would do the same! anyone would, i do it all the time with my ex, as strange and ..weird as that sounds haha! there’s no way he wouldn’t be curious as to what you are up to. i couldn’t just sit there and try to ignore my ex’s updates etc lol trust me its okay 🙂
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