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@annakis I managed to ignore him and I didn’t get anymore texts from him thank God! Feeling really bad today, like emotionally drained. Gotta get strong again! How you are?
@KD1988 I’m doing okay I think… I feel like I’m getting over her more and more every day but I’m kinda frustrated that she’s still the very first thing I think about when I wake up… Drives me crazy!
Frustration is the right word definitely! It’s like why can’t they just understand!
Let’s just say lots of things were said that i haven’t been able to say up to now, plus some added because I was drunk! Massive regret this morning but at least its not over my ex haha!It is pure frustration!! I literally feel deflated today. Like I’m starting all over again, that’s how it feels.
Haha yes at least it wasn’t your ex!! X@pineappleblue Haha ooooops… Oh well like everyone else is saing, at least it wasn’t your ex!
And sadly it’s not me thinking about her in a good way, at least not usually. Usually it’s me going into little panics and overthinking things… And I still haven’t gotten a response to my letter!
@KD1988 Mm I know what you mean, I personally feel like I take a step back every time I take two forward and I’m not even talking to my ex… I wish one of us had a crystal ball so we could look into it and know exactly what we’re supposed to do to 100% definitely get our ex’s back!That would be good wouldn’t it!! That all this pain would be worth it! Well I know it will be worth it regardless of the outcome because it will better me as a person. Maybe the day will come we can meet up, and by then I will be 100% ok 🙂
Hey I like that… It’ll be worth it because it’ll better me as a person. I’m gonna remember that.
And yeah I definitely feel like I need to be 100% okay again before anything can really happen… But it’s hard to get to that point, and I worry that she’s never going to want to talk to me again anyway… Kinda hard to show off the new improved me if I can’t get in touch 😛
Yeah that does make it hard! But improving yourself and getting to 100% is all you can do and the day may come that she gets in touch and when she does you will be ready 🙂
Okay so this is a little bit off topic, but you two seem to be pretty confident people… I sadly, am not all that confident!
This is definitely something that I’m looking to improve in myself so I was wondering… You two got any confidence building tips for me by any chance? 🙂 Anything like that?
@annakis I probably come across more confident than I am. But all I will say is that I am happy with who I am. I have been going to the gym and doings things that make me happy. Which in turn has built my confidence too. I listen to myself a lot too!
@annakis yes me too to be honest!
My main thing that makes me feel confident is smiling even if you don’t feel like it.. I work in a hospital so I will walk down the corridor and smile at EVERYONE even if they don’t smile back.. It makes you feel happy from the inside, and if your happy inside you come across as happy and confident outside!
Also, make that extra effort where it counts! Find something that really flatters you and emphasise it! So my skin has been amazing since my breakup so I make sure it’s always looking bright and fresh when I know I’ll be around people that I want to impress 🙂 again, if you feel nice, you come across that way!Yep totally agree! Confidence starts from how you feel within as well and how you feel about yourself. I just do what I can to make myself happy!
Hello all…sorry that I disappear and show up just like that
Today is day 29 and there is nothing and it seems like there will never be something anymore but I still just can’t get him out of my mind and I do really want to get rid of it cuz I really am sick of feeling this way, I feel miserable all the way as if I’m living in another world. Sometimes its like I’m okay and get confident and yeah I can move on and thinking about the things I would enjoy doing and opportunities maybe someone new but then again I find myself thinking of him, where he might be whats he thinking, doing. I’m afraid this will go on for a long time and I don’t really want that, I want to go on with my life, he did turn my life upside down and nothing is going to be the same anymore, I just don’t know what to do…the first thing I think of when I wake up in the morning is him or about him, I hate it really. I try to distract myself when I find myself ending up thinking of him but nothing really seems to work in fact.
Maybe a message from him would do that…help me to move on…I don’t know.
I feel so helpless
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