Meeting up..

me too! i just hope this doesnt go on for too long 🙁

i deleted him on snapchat last night and then he re added me today which is so unlike him bc i told him i was going to remove him and he’s been very respectful about not contacting me or giving me any false hope. he only responds when i reach out so i texted to ask if he added me..he said something was wrong with his snapchat..pretty much all that came out of the conversation

i will try again tomorrow

thanks for the encouragement…trying to get through 30 days

maybe she was just getting frustrated you weren’t answering her texts? maybe instead of going 90 days you should contact her after 30 just to touch base? its such a delicate situation between giving space and not waiting around but also keeping the door and communication open for our exes to come back..unfortunately in both our situations i think the break ups were entirely due to our exes wanting to explore other options which just takes time. i feel like for me i am anticipating this lasting for a significant amount of time and probably will keep switching from nc to lc to talking. idk its really hard to find the right balance to navigate.
i think if i were you i would reach out again between 4-6 weeks just to touch base and let her know you’re not waiting around but do still think about her. just a thought. i really don’t know the best way to handle these situations. even if she does like this other guy for now, it probably won’t last. you have years and years of history with her. i think that is hard to give up personally

i had a similar situation. i always tried to talk through things but he usually wanted to ignore me until time passed. if we were to get back together that is definitely something he would need to work on.
are you still planning to stick to the 90 days? do you have any timeline of when she will want to give it another chance?

what has she said when you talk about future reconciliation?