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its only day 5 of NC and shes reached out twice

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  • January 7, 2015 at 5:30 pm #23216
    Arjun
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    We have been together for 2 years she left me because she didn’t feel he same for me and while she lost feelings for me she met this guy and started liking him so she thought she she can’t like this guy if she loves me and then thought that she clearly must not love me if she likes this guy so she left me and went off with this guy

    Basically I started NC and in the 3rd she popped up to me on WhatsApp and I read her message and didn’t say anything. She then popped up today on the 5th day and she said “why ignore me” with a lot of those whatever faces on WhatsApp it looks like

    January 7, 2015 at 5:52 pm #23221
    LAbound
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    do not reach out

    January 7, 2015 at 6:25 pm #23227
    Arjun
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    So ignore again ? 🙁

    January 7, 2015 at 11:09 pm #23269
    Nell
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    If she keeps messaging you, you can simply say that you need some time and space.

    January 8, 2015 at 3:33 am #23283
    Arjun
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    So should I ignore her now and say that the next time she messages me?

    January 8, 2015 at 8:52 am #23311
    LAbound
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    Just do it now.

    January 8, 2015 at 9:01 am #23315
    Arjun
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    Okidokes so just say that I need some time and to just leave me alone for a while ?

    Btw what’s up with Kik

    January 8, 2015 at 9:13 am #23318
    Arjun
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    Okay so I said to her

    ‘Hey sorry just been super busy :(‘
    ‘I just need time to myself and a bit of space I hope you can understand’
    ‘Hope all is well anyway’

    what do you guys think ?

    January 8, 2015 at 9:42 am #23241
    Scientist
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    My ex broke it off after 4 year relationship. He emailed me after 9 days of nc I am not sure what to do as I don’t want to push him away and before I initiated nc we were heading to friends status but he said something unkind and was sending iced messages so I started nc. Help I am confused

    January 8, 2015 at 9:57 am #23327
    Arjun
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    What was the reason for the relationship breaking up?

    January 8, 2015 at 10:23 am #23329
    LAbound
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    kik caused my phone to shut down repeatedly. So I uninstalled it.

    January 8, 2015 at 3:03 pm #23396
    Arjun
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    LA I will try find another messaging service lol add me on WeChat 🙂 My name is ‘Arjun Kataria’

    So this is how the conversation went:

    (H) is her and (M) is me

    (H) 5th January @ 23.07 – Hey 😀

    (M) 7th January @ 22.18 – Oiiii -_- -_- -_-
    (M) 7th January @ 22.19 – Why ignore me -_-

    (M) 8th January @ 15.10 – Hey sorry just been super busy 🙁
    (M) 8th January @ 15.11 – I just need time to myself and a bit of space I hope you understand
    (M) 8th January @ 15.11 – Hope all is well anyway
    (H) 8th January @ 15.36 – It’s okay yeah don’t worry
    (H) 8th January @ 20.37 – Got a lot of stress at the moment tbh a lot of stuff I’m trying to do
    (M) 8th January @ 20.44 – oh okay good luck lol
    (H) 8th January @ 20.47 – Well that’s nice -_- -_-

    wadya think 🙁 was I too harsh 🙁 too blunt 🙁 I feel bad 🙁 I want to make her relieved of her stress 🙁

    January 8, 2015 at 3:31 pm #23410
    Hells
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    hey, found it!
    Well the way you wrote the last was a bit hars, you could have written “sorry to hear, it will ba allright im sure=) take care”
    But it is what it is, so keep on the NC.

    January 8, 2015 at 3:35 pm #23411
    Arjun
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    shall i say it now instead 🙁 don’t want her upset with me 🙁

    January 8, 2015 at 3:42 pm #23412
    Hells
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    was this today? then maybe, “sorry for being like that, sorry to hear about your situation, im sure it will all be allright, take care”

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