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The only problem is that I was never good in text messages and I don’t want to screw this over… I think I’m more of a face-to-face kind of guy!
Is it better to wait for her to send?? Because I told her before that I don’t want to be friends with her and by sending her I think it is going to ring her bells!!
Well, I texted my ex for the first time after the elephant with something funny! We chatted for a little bit, she was answering immediately, we had a couple of laughs and she was friendly but two days now she didn’t initiate contact!! She also changed her profile and cover photos on Fb and uploaded a photo on instagram after months and she is active on messenger like all the time! Should I sent her tomorrow or leave her??
Well, the third time I initiated contact with my ex didn’t end up well… She told me that talking to her is making her confused and she is asked me this “we are texting like what? Like friends, like friends who are flirting, like cool ex? And why?”! I told her to talk to her on the phone if she is ok with that because texts can be misunderstood, she told me that she was on hurry and she is gonna call me later!!
Did I do something wrong?I think in two weeks is going to be the same! I’m still waiting for her to talk on the phone and try to resolve this issue and then I’ll step back for two weeks!!
We just spoke on the phone! She was very sweet (like when we were together)! I spoke to her with honesty and I told about what I did during the last month and how I see things different now! She told me that she is not ready to talk to me like this and that she is still confused and that she can’t be cool like me! She also told me that she needs space and time to see thing clear!!
After that she asked me about me and my family, then she told me about her studies and work!! That’s it!What should I do now? I obviously can’t send her again… I need serious advice here!!
Just take it slow and give her more time. For now try to have some friendly relations with her and rebuild connection. Make her comfortable. But remember – you are not her friend, you are her ex. Be flirty, but be subtle.
“She told me that she is not ready to talk to me like this and that she is still confused and that she can’t be cool like me! She also told me that she needs space and time to see thing clear!!”
To me it’s obvious that she does not want contact from you for awhile. She seems like a very nice lady so perhaps she was just being kind to chat with you. Continue no contact!
She will probably get in touch on your birthday. Maybe at that time you will learn something more as to whether she remains confused.
I suspect she will be much more willing to chat after she submits her thesis for her master’s degree in September. It’s only a few months away, so I think you should be more patient.
I agree with you in most of the part patricia, but I know her well and I don’t thing that she was just being kind! Sure I’ll respect that and I’ll give her the space she needs! When we talked on the phone she was impressed with me and with how much I grew!! She was really sweet and spoke to me like when we were together!
I assume that she is thinking about getting back together too but she is not sure yet!
Well, we spoke on the phone for about 20′, it is hard for me to remember and translate the whole conversation so I can give you some clues!! Thank for the support!! I’m pretty sure that we will be together in the near future! 😊
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