Boards Reconciliation How to not scare my ex off again?

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    Maya123
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    Hey so I’m posting again haha. I have recently been talking to my ex again and we have had a few short conversations and he snapped me once. He has been pretty positive in talking to me even though he keeps the conversations short. However, I texted him again yesterday and he did not respond. I am not sure how to take this because during our relationship he was never big on texting and would sometimes not respond to texts or would respond after a day.

    This was a challenge during the relationship because sometimes I would call him out on it and say that I felt he wasn’t interested in talking to me. I think he felt this was clingy behavior and would tell me that he just didn’t like texting and just because his texts were dry or infrequent that didn’t mean he wasn’t interested. So thats why I am not sure how I should take him not responding. It could just be that he didn’t feel like responding to that text but he is still open to communication. But I don’t want to constantly be the one to initiate things because then I feel like I’m being creepy. So does anyone have advice? Should I wait a week to text again? Should I not worry about this or should I take it as a sign he’s not interested and slow down?

    Basically I am at the point where I am trying to rebuild rapport without being creepy and clingy. If anyone has some advice on how to proceed in general I would super appreciate it!

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    patricia12
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    @maya123 – From your other post, you were never girlfriend / boyfriend. He told you he’s not big on texting and yet instead of accepting that, you called him out on it? And yes, that is definitely clingy type behavior. You texted him yesterday and he didn’t respond, but you’re stressing out about it again. You have to know he has a busy life and doesn’t always have time to reply right away. So stop hounding him with texts if you really want to rebuild rapport. Don’t go back to your pattern of texting too much! I don’t think you should text him again next week as he will probably get in touch when has has time. Be more patient.

    Date other guys in your area and spend time with family and friends..

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