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I told him I was happy and he said I’d be happier if I moved on. But he is not to tell me what to do, and I will show him that I’m not a second choice. I just asked what he meant by all the shit he said and when he said “you don’t have to use sex to get me, I have you” idk what me meant. He has as in…he wants me back or the other thing. I’m tempted to tell him straight that he us not to use me. I don’t care if I sound like a bitch. He needs to get it through his head. His actions say he still loves me and some of them he wants me. And he still snapped me when I didn’t reply. I was just trying to make a simple conversation this morning
My ex has said smimilar things. Basically I think he is saying he knows he has you when he wants you. I agree with the person who said he’s trying to keep you as a backup. I think the best way to show him he’s wrong is to completely ignore him and try to focus on other things. Let him get mad. If it gets bad tell him that if he really wants you to move on that he needs to give you some space and that you are sorry but you can’t answer his texts & snapchats for awhile. And then don’t respond to him anymore.
I know it’s easier said than done. I’m right there with you.I don’t even remember what we were talking about anymore. I was wrong he said had. I’m still confused…i want him back but idk what to do
Oh and, I noticed last week I was kinda letting go more and he would not stop sending me crap. Like he would send me the stupidest shit. I tried explaining how I was feeling before we broke up and it didn’t click with him. Sometimes I wish I could be a bitch to get shit through his head. Our break up is completely fixable. Seriously. Why is it so freaking hard
I totally understand your frustration. Mine is totally fixable too. I think Litredfrog is right. Do that. Can you read my post explained how my meetup with my ex went yesterday and tell me what you think?
You don’t need to use sec to get me I have you ??!!??!! WTF??
How dare he. I’m sorry, but he thinks he owns you, has you where he wants you, can do whatever he wants and you will be there.
You are not owned by anyone! You have to be strong and respect yourself. I know you love him, I know how hard that is, but you can’t let yourself be so downtrodden, lady. Please try to be strong. He cannot be allowed to think he has you…. You have to make him CHOOSE you… Over everyone else.
I know it sucks.. Try o be strong, you should be no ones plaything.
Meant with care xx
That’s my plan. Show him he has to work to get me. Obviously he still cares or else he wouldn’t be snapchatting me everyday. Or text me when I told him we needed to talk (which he didn’t interpret a word I said) and I didn’t reply that night and he text me again and got mad. If he didn’t care, he wouldn’t have text me or snap me at all
You are right – all those things mean he does have feelings for you… So use that! Stretch his feelings to the limit. Be in control. Be strong, lass. You can do it!
Oh I have been. We’re talking about that I’m chubby. I know i am. I have been for awhile. I’m going to work out. I’m determined to get back to original 125 I was in my Junior year. I WAS Skinny And I Really MISS It But IM Doing It For me
And sorry for all the capitalized letters. My phone is stupid
I just don’t know how to use that, besides not replying to his snapchat. I don’t understand why this is so hard, but yet the reason we broke up is fixable. and it is fixed! I need help with this. I know that he still wants me, he’s just hiding it by being an ass. @LAgirl, what do you suggest, by using his feelings?
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