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wao divjun my situation is just like yours. The only thing is that my ex does have a new girl.
I need someone to talk to so that I can share my experience of this situation.
My friends are kinda tired of the topic.Heres my email: [email protected]
I think you are wise to maintain NC until your ex shows that he values you. Otherwise even if you did get back together you would be repeating the same cycle. Im going through the same thing with my ex, and honestly I have no desire to go back to that.
Stay strong.@lolita my friends are even tired of hearing this over and over again!! I ll write to you shortly. 🙂
@litredfrog
I dont know how much time will he take to realise my value and what he has done. Its my day 11 of nc still no progress. He contacted me a couple of times but no sign of him realising mistakes or missing me.!So… today i got a call from him. I didnt pick and got a text right away saying “div??i miss you. Pls tell me if you’re not going to talk to me”
He called twice again then another text “i am scared please say something” then he called again. I didnt do anything.He texted my brother’s gf as she is mine friend too. He asked her to call my brother and ask him if div is fine or not. My brother told her that i am fine.
Then no text or calls feom him. I disnt respond to any.
Was it okay?hey i think you did well sticking to nc. the soft side in me would have relented hahaha
Lol
Was it okay?
I ll break nc when he says sorry with all his heart and wants to get back together. 😉well most importantly is that you yourself have become a better person so imo you can break nc anytime after that?
Well, i became a strong person even without starting nc. I ha e been going through all this for a lot of time and it has made me stronger. I wont settle for any less than i deserve. Though i love him and miss him like hell but i am controlling my emotions for now.
Btw, i dont know why you both broke up and for how long you both were dating.
You should update your story soonWe were together for slightly over a year. She had a few past relationships but I was the first one who met her parents etc. Our relationship was headed towards a long term kinda thing. Then towards the end of the year we became distant. We were busy with school and then we also lost our intimacy. We were classmates but she didn’t like me showing affection and stuff. Might also be due to the fact that we see each other everyday? I was planning to use the time that we have after we graduated to reconnect but I never got the chance.
Long story short – apart from those reasons listed above she also found it suffocating in the relationship.
We still care for each other so we’re still friends. She even asked be to come by her house to visit her parents during the Chinese New Year (we’re asians).
Keep it up guys!
@mj you should stick with nc at all times, this way she’ll miss you.Sometimes we don’t realize what we’ve got until its gone.
Update on my situation:
My ex is spending the weekend at the beach with his new girl. He says shes not his gf but for her he is her bf.
he posts a lot of pictures in snapchat but only there. His family still believes we will get back together someday but he sure as hell seems like he forgot about the 3 years we spent together.
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