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February 26, 2015 at 6:32 am #33221
I am trying my best to go through NC. I always find myself thinking about him. I am doing everuthing to make myself feel good but its getting difficult. Why cant he just realise he made a mistake and he was doing wrong to me. Its day 9 of Nc and i get dreams of him texting me or calling me. I wake up and check my phone and there was nothing.
I hope everything would be alrighg soon:(February 26, 2015 at 6:35 am #33222Same with me. My HEAD knows to stick to NC but my heart says otherwise. Everything reminds me of her and I keep dreaming of her too.
February 26, 2015 at 6:41 am #33223I want to continue nc by heart and mind both. My only wish is for him to realise what he did. He has changed alot. I tried to do everything what i could but he always had a problem with me.
I will break nc only when he ll come to his senses and see what he has lost.
If he loved me truely then it will happen one day someday:/
I just cant wait for that day!!Yes, i am checking it now:)
February 26, 2015 at 7:04 am #33232We can only jope for the best. At the same time I’ve reconciled with the fact that me might never ever get back together. Hurts but It’s the reality I have to face.
February 26, 2015 at 7:08 am #33237Its hard to accept that fact. 🙁
I feel positive that one day we ll get back together. Idk why but i feel positive about this. Is it bad?February 26, 2015 at 7:14 am #33238i dont think feeling positive is a bad thing. Well we all come here looking to get back with our ex so positivity would be a good driving force to help you get there. My pessimist side tends to get hold of me and i worry about a lot of things soooooooo it makes it hard for me to stick with this program hahaha
February 26, 2015 at 7:23 am #33241I too get pessimist sometimes and i guess its completely normal.
Thats why it is important to focus on ourselves and stop thinking about them.February 26, 2015 at 7:28 am #33242We all know it’s easier said then done 😉
February 26, 2015 at 7:36 am #33244Yes… all the best for future and i hope everything goes well for everyone here and they get their ex’s back.
February 26, 2015 at 7:37 am #33245That would such a happy ending hahaha
February 26, 2015 at 7:41 am #33247Haha i know.
February 26, 2015 at 7:42 am #33248Just got a call from him…
Didnt pick it thoughFebruary 26, 2015 at 8:41 am #33258Well at least you know he is still thinking of you
February 26, 2015 at 9:59 am #33278OK, I think he was scared and now he is confused and don’t know what he wants. Maybe he enjoy spending time with you and for me he is acting like he cares what happens with you. And I guess he will soon realize what he needs to do if he wants to be with you. Just have some faith. Meantime try to be happy. Go out with friends, to go a bar or something… just have fun. Try not to think of him. I know it’s hard. I can’t always do this, but I am trying. And I feel better than before – you will too.
Hope everyone here will get back together with their ex’s
February 27, 2015 at 2:24 am #33389I am trying to be happy and not to remember anything about him.
I think he is just calling me for the sake of formality. If he really wanted to talk or cared about me, he could just leave a text about what he is feeling. He knows i am upset and wont pick his call. He didn’t even say sorry to me for huting me so much. He even ruined my birthday!!
I dont think he wants to be with me nor he enjoys spending time with me.
We met 2 montgs ago for the last time and broke up in February only. If he enjoyed spending time he would have talked to me more or met me in person. He didn’t give me enough time and love which i needed from the past couple of weeks! -
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