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  • #33221
    divjun
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    I am trying my best to go through NC. I always find myself thinking about him. I am doing everuthing to make myself feel good but its getting difficult. Why cant he just realise he made a mistake and he was doing wrong to me. Its day 9 of Nc and i get dreams of him texting me or calling me. I wake up and check my phone and there was nothing.
    I hope everything would be alrighg soon:(

    #33222
    Mj
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    Same with me. My HEAD knows to stick to NC but my heart says otherwise. Everything reminds me of her and I keep dreaming of her too.

    #33223
    divjun
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    I want to continue nc by heart and mind both. My only wish is for him to realise what he did. He has changed alot. I tried to do everything what i could but he always had a problem with me.
    I will break nc only when he ll come to his senses and see what he has lost.
    If he loved me truely then it will happen one day someday:/
    I just cant wait for that day!!

    Yes, i am checking it now:)

    #33232
    Mj
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    We can only jope for the best. At the same time I’ve reconciled with the fact that me might never ever get back together. Hurts but It’s the reality I have to face.

    #33237
    divjun
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    Its hard to accept that fact. 🙁
    I feel positive that one day we ll get back together. Idk why but i feel positive about this. Is it bad?

    #33238
    Mj
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    i dont think feeling positive is a bad thing. Well we all come here looking to get back with our ex so positivity would be a good driving force to help you get there. My pessimist side tends to get hold of me and i worry about a lot of things soooooooo it makes it hard for me to stick with this program hahaha

    #33241
    divjun
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    I too get pessimist sometimes and i guess its completely normal.
    Thats why it is important to focus on ourselves and stop thinking about them.

    #33242
    Mj
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    We all know it’s easier said then done 😉

    #33244
    divjun
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    Yes… all the best for future and i hope everything goes well for everyone here and they get their ex’s back.

    #33245
    Mj
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    That would such a happy ending hahaha

    #33247
    divjun
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    Haha i know.

    #33248
    divjun
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    Just got a call from him…
    Didnt pick it though

    #33258
    Mj
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    Well at least you know he is still thinking of you

    #33278
    nikimoto
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    OK, I think he was scared and now he is confused and don’t know what he wants. Maybe he enjoy spending time with you and for me he is acting like he cares what happens with you. And I guess he will soon realize what he needs to do if he wants to be with you. Just have some faith. Meantime try to be happy. Go out with friends, to go a bar or something… just have fun. Try not to think of him. I know it’s hard. I can’t always do this, but I am trying. And I feel better than before – you will too.

    Hope everyone here will get back together with their ex’s

    #33389
    divjun
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    I am trying to be happy and not to remember anything about him.
    I think he is just calling me for the sake of formality. If he really wanted to talk or cared about me, he could just leave a text about what he is feeling. He knows i am upset and wont pick his call. He didn’t even say sorry to me for huting me so much. He even ruined my birthday!!
    I dont think he wants to be with me nor he enjoys spending time with me.
    We met 2 montgs ago for the last time and broke up in February only. If he enjoyed spending time he would have talked to me more or met me in person. He didn’t give me enough time and love which i needed from the past couple of weeks!

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