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Mosis, I like your idea of making a joke of it. It takes a lot of the pressure off. Makes it carefree. We were always silly with each other.
I’m not sure what I would update him on. We have a lot in common but I can’t think of any updates he would respond too.
I’m going to think of more texts tonight and get y’alls feedback.
Great just take your time 🙂
anything you send just don’t make it anything that puts pressure on him to “feel emotion” if you make him laugh or get him responding or even when he see your text, the emotion part will be their automatically.
Update:
I contacted him tonight for the first time since NC. It went ok.
Our convo:
Me: Hey, I just discovered a new Mexican place tonight. It made me think of you. I know how much you love Mexican food!
Him: What is the place?
Me: [name of restaurant] Ever been?
Him: I have not
Me: You should check it out! Gotta run, talk to you later.
Him: Ook
Him: Random
So, I’m really glad he responded to me, but his answers were very neutral. His last texts make me think he is somewhat confused why I was texting him out of the blue. I think I need to give him some more time and try again in a week or so. With a completely different kind of text. It’s just hard to tell how he is feeling, very different texting vibe than what I’m use to from him. It’s like he has a poker face on or something.
thoughts?
it was the way you ended the convo.. you kinda rushed it so it was kinda like umm okay.. thanks..?
well haha, that was on purpose. I’ve been following this relationship pro and he said end it after sending two texts and try and leave him wanting more. I don’t know it was a shot in the dark convo anyway. He didn’t contact me at all during NC. I’m going to text him again in a few days and try a different approach.
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