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@KD1988 i added more to the top comment. What did you do to fix your problem with depression and stuff?
I went straight to the doctors and got anti depressants. I’ve been depressed before so I should of seen the signs. I started going back to my exercise class. Surrounded myself with friends and family and have started seeing a counsellor. It’s really helped me!
See she has been on pills even before we started dating. I feel that the pills are not helping her anymore. That she needs to start weening off of them. She is too young to be on them. Plus she is a drinker. She isnt one to stop after 1 beer. The alcohol amplifies those pills like crazy. I believe thats the help she really needs. She is a beautiful girl inside and out and i feel that her medication is making her into an uglier person by the day. She has always been the same girl to me but over 2 years time, i have seen that her patience towards anything had become thinner and thinner. Very emotional girl. I just want to be there for her. I lost a close friend of mine to suicide because of pills like these. I saw him the day before he did it. Broke my heart. I just couldnt live with myself if she fell into the same fate.
Depends what pills she is taking. No one is in a position to say someone is too young to take them, everyone’s situation is different. They work wonders for me. I just don’t stay on them long. Sounds like she needs a councillor too. I’m not that much of a drinker, but I know drinking is a depressant, so she will just make herself feel worse. But I am not a doctor
No you are correct. She would become this mean person if she drank to much. Come to think of it. I think i know one of the reasons she left me. She used to sleepover every tuesday, thursday, saturday. Since we broke up, she has been at a bar every thursday getting drunk, actually almost everyday that she has the next day off she is at a bar. Usually she would be with me at home. I used to go with her but my new job(almost a year here now) i wake up at 530am. Cant be out late anymore on the weekdays. It seems that she drinks alot more because she doesnt have me anymore. If she broke up with me so she could do that crap more; thats just cruel to me, since i was always there for her. I treated her like royalty. Now that i remember, she was always so tired after work and fell right asleep at my house. Why all of a sudden she isnt tired anymore and is out till 3am?
Sounds like she is doing something to occupy her mind. doesn’t sound like a reason to break up with someone. She probably thinks she is helping herself but is making it worse. It’s a tough one
Yes it is. Why did i have to fall for a girl like this? lol We had it so good, why throw it away?
And we all know the bar scene eventually gets old. Shes only 22. She will learn that soon at the rate she is doing it. Who gives up a realtionship with a guy who has great benefits at work, good pay, always a good person, great family and home? It doesnt make sense
Being 22 you don’t tend to think of those things unfortunately, I rememeber it well lol.
I’m glad in a way my ex ended it, otherwise I would be still be stuck in a rut, I just lost him in the process 🙁
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