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  • #12979
    marie
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    • Total Posts: 11

    Hi everyone
    when i fought with my ex i unfriend him, and now i miss him so much on my facebook
    I don’t know if its a idea to add him again or now
    I have not contacted him in 11 days
    I miss him terribly.

    #12985
    aamls
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    • Total Posts: 894

    keep doing no contact and go from there. work on yourself and keep yourself busy. good luck

    #12987
    cj03
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    • Total Posts: 16

    I would not suggest adding him back. Wait until after you’ve had some back and forth conversation with him (well after your 30 days). Seeing his facebook updates will not ease the pain of missing him. It will only stir up your emotions and may cause you to start analyzing and obsessing over every post.

    #13000
    Mema
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    • Total Posts: 137

    I agree with everyone else .. just wait untill you establish a contact with him again after 30 days .. and keep NC .. good luck ^_^

    #13006
    marie
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    • Total Posts: 11

    Thanks @aamls and @cj03

    @cj03
    he is not so active on facebook but i miss having him on my facebook

    #13009
    cj03
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    • Total Posts: 16

    Your friend request is conveying to your ex that you still need them. It shows a bit of neediness. As the program says, “You need to learn to enjoy your life without your ex. You need to prove to yourself that you can be happy without your ex.”

    #13012
    marie
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    • Total Posts: 11

    @cj03 I cant be happy without him
    I miss him so much

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