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February 23, 2015 at 9:10 am #32669
My ex and I were in a relation for 6 months, during this perioe we broke up 2 times because of him and each time I did the 5 steps we got back together, but this time I can’t do this anymore,I’m really hurt, when he really used to want me, I decided to give him a chance, but he used to not give me a lot of his time , he said because he’s busy because of his exams. And one day, a guy texted me and said that there’s a lot of things I don’t know about ny ex, and that he’s dating another girl, I asked hin for proofs but he said that he wants us to be friends first so I refused, I immediately told my ex what happened, he said that I should ask that guy and that he knows nothing about him. And from that day, my ex didn’t reply to me anymore, I didn’t beg him or something, I just asked him where he is and didn’t text him anything else. His cousin and I are friends, so he told me that my ex’s phone doesn’t work anymore that’s why he isn’t talking to me. During this period, his cousin and I started to he very close, but we had a fight and we didn’t talk again. Then, I saw that my ex changed his display picture and status, I talked to him and told him good luck for his exams, he didn’t reply.there’s a girl who commented on my ex’s picture on instagram, in her bio she’s writing 1’1’2015 K.A. and my ex is writing in her bio 《mine》, I’m confused if she dated k.A. or my ex, also, my ex asked me to get back to him after this date (1.1 2015) , is it possible that the guy who talked to me is right and my ex is a liar? I can’t stop crying, I am such a stupid girl, and after all what he did I still care for him and love him like an idiot and can’t get over him, what should I do I’m really so tired.
February 23, 2015 at 9:16 am #32671Never let any third person enter into your relation. All other people interfere only to make your relationship a mess. I am experienced. My so called best friend did this to me. And besides you dont even know that person. These comments amount to nothing and he is studying for his exams. Let him be and give it some time.
Even if that was true and he is not replying to you because of that, he will eventually tell you. Wait till his exams are over and try to work on yourself. Insecure girls are never attractive, i have been one thats why i am telling you.
Trust him and ignore what that guy told you. Time will tell you the truth.Can you take a look at my latest thread?
February 23, 2015 at 9:19 am #32672But it’s not logic that he has time to post pictures on his instagram account and to change his display pictures and statuses on whatsapp and not even wishing me a happy birthday right? He’s such a liar, he doesn’t care about me anymore, but the worst part that I don’t why he’s going that, we were so perfect together. Thankyou anyway, sure will
February 23, 2015 at 9:22 am #32673I can feel what you’re feeling. My ex too spoiled my birthday.
Go NC and see what happens. Dont look on his whatsapp and favebook account. You can even delete him from both. Just take care of yourself.February 23, 2015 at 3:29 pm #32735I really don’t know, I want him back and I do love him, but I feel kinda insecure, how can I trust him again after he left me 2 times for no reason? And he wasn’t walking over me, I used to have my opinion and everything, I can’t understand why he’s lying and leaving me in that way especially that I don’t show him that I need him or want him at all now
February 23, 2015 at 3:31 pm #32737Hey,
You are not a stupid girl, as we all know that love is blind , if you ever had feelings for this guy then its very easy to understand why you didnt agree with the person who told the truth about your boyfriend. He is dating someone else thats the truth.. if he didn’ t think about this at least he would have called you on your birthday. But no he didnt . He is over your girl and im sorry to say that there must be plenty of guys for you to make you happy . My suggestion for youbis to move on 6months is a short period of time . My gf ditched me for some other guy after 7years of intense relationship . I decided to move on.
But im still following the plan as i stated earlier love is blind
February 23, 2015 at 3:40 pm #32741Actually he wished me a happy birthday from his cousin’s phone, but it is not a perfect way, you’re right thankyouu
February 26, 2015 at 2:52 pm #33321My ex called me 4 times and asked me why I’m not answering and told me that he wants to talk to me just for 1 minute but I didn’t reply, is it right?
February 27, 2015 at 2:29 am #33391Yes you did the right thing… he is missing you. Let him miss you more and let him take a decision as to what he actually wants
February 27, 2015 at 6:57 am #33412@divjun he said that he doesn’t want us w get back together he only wants to tell me something and ends everything, it really hurts the way he’s talking to me, I didn’t answer anyway
February 27, 2015 at 7:18 am #33423He is acting like my ex. Dont contact him at all. He is missing you but not admitting it. If he really wanted to end everything he could have left a text and end it. He is going to contact you soon again but i would suggest you to maintain nc and work on yourself and learn to be happy without him!
February 28, 2015 at 1:20 pm #33630My ex is calling me a lot and texting me all the day, he’s saying that it’s urgent and that I have to answer and that he wants to tell me something , please anyhelp? Should I answer? @divjun
February 28, 2015 at 1:55 pm #33634dont answer, seriously… if he misses you let him miss you more. show him u are independent and that you are okay with him or without him. if it was that urgent he would already text you about the thing he wants to tell you, i think. so, dont answer..
what u think of my case, i could use some advice now, he stillis distant and cold.. but at least he doesnt act like i dont exist anymore.
re: we talked and hanged out after 3 months of NC and him ignoring me!
February 28, 2015 at 7:17 pm #33688I totally agree with tami. Dont do anything.
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