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really hurt and don't know what's going on anymore

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  • March 2, 2015 at 7:25 am #33891
    divjun
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    Did you already break nc?

    March 2, 2015 at 3:32 pm #33979
    Rawan
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    Nope I started non contact period since he wasn’t answering to my texts so at 7 February during my birthday, he’a texting me and calling me all the day and night but I’m not answering , now he asked me if we can go out this saturday but I don’t feel like seeing him this week, I mean I really miss him and want him back but I’m scared that he would leave me again and again if he saw that I’m always for him. When should I answer to his calls and ask him to go out? @divjun

    March 3, 2015 at 12:24 am #34029
    divjun
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    In my opinion, you shouldn’t even talk to him right now. He is missing you and may be he is throwing a bait towards you so thay you ll talk to him.
    He knows you wont say no if he asked you out.
    Keep what you are doing and continue with nc!

    March 3, 2015 at 8:45 am #34087
    Rawan
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    Thankyou so muchh @divjun

    March 16, 2015 at 8:54 am #36643
    Rawan
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    I replied to my ex and called him, I asked him what does he want, he said that he needs to see me to tell me something, I tried to know what he wants but he said that he won’t say anything before seeing me. We talked all night , the second day he didn’t text me, the third day he said hi, I replied, he didn’t talk again. Should I talk to him and tell him that I wanna see him this Saturday? What should I do please?

    March 16, 2015 at 9:33 am #36646
    kaila
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    If he told you he wants to see you to talk you should just wait and not text him. Then if some time passes, like a week with no contact you text him and say hey you said you wanted to talk. what about we go have a coffee this weekend?
    dont go after him with texts everyday like that

    March 21, 2015 at 11:10 am #37392
    Rawan
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    My ex and I were supposed to see each others today, but before 2 hours, he called me and said that he wanted to see me to tell me that he’s sorry for everything and wants mento forgive, he said that he didn’t want to see me to get me back but the last period he felt like he’s having fun and he’s sorry, I told him that when I see him we will talk. After one hour he said that he can’t see me, I started to beg him and told him that it’s the last time I will see him or talk to him then he blocked me, I sent him like 50 messages and told him that I’m waiting for him in the place where we were supposed to meet. I know that I shouldn’t talk to him like that but I was so hurt, what should I do? I’m really hurt, it was supposed to be a perfect date, I looked so pretty, I’m sure that if he saw me he would fell in love with me again, but he didn’t give me a chance, what should I do please?

    March 21, 2015 at 11:18 am #37393
    Rawan
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    @kaila @divjun

    March 21, 2015 at 4:39 pm #37431
    Rawan
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    Anyone plz?

    March 22, 2015 at 5:14 am #37455
    Rawan
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    I can’t take it anymore, I can’t stop thinking about what he said and crying, our memories can’t get out of my mind, it kills me

    March 25, 2015 at 4:56 am #37905
    Rawan
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    Is there anyone who can help me plz?

    March 26, 2015 at 1:59 am #38036
    Kevin
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    Hey,

    You should start no contact again. This time, at least for 2 months. Don’t end no contact until you have done everything mentioned in the checklist in the Step 4 of the 5 step plan. You are extremely needy and desperate right now. You don’t have a chance of getting him back if you remain like this. You need to do no contact and make some changes in your life and in your attitude about him. If you are able to do that, you still have a shot.

    March 27, 2015 at 11:34 am #38363
    Rawan
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    But what if he didn’t came back? Or he moved on so fast? Or he didn’t even remember me? I really do love him and miss him a lot

    March 30, 2015 at 9:19 pm #39089
    Rawan
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    My ex unblocked me, does it mean anything?

    April 1, 2015 at 9:55 am #39408
    Rawan
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    I miss him so much, I wish we could talk right now, what if he didn’t talk to me again?

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