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Sorry, for unclear story. My ex and i did a little bit about if we had slept with someone else after our breakup, and she said yes, and she would never take any birthcontrol pills unless she wants something serious.
I feel like we are not finish yet for sure, since i know that she still has feelings for me, and i am sure that i want her back, not because of i miss her or something like that. I want to have a new and better relationship with her. Thats why i need an advice about how can i maintain a contact with her. How do i build attraction for her via text? We did text a little bit after we said goodbye but she seems cold again now. Should i go to no contact? What can i do after this point?
*A little update*
Hi, i want to do a little update from my meeting with my ex. It went well, we had fun. When we first met we were just talking casually. Then we went to her place to pick her stuff. In her apartment there were a lot of stuff that weren’t hers, and i saw on hers table there were some birth control pills, and she was not a fan of taking them when we were together, because it would give her side effect. So i knew that she has slept with other guys since our breakup. I know that it was not something that i could control, since we are not together anymore. But i didn’t show any emotion to her, though i was so mad inside. Because i figured that one of the reason why she went cold and distant was she was seeing someone else. So i was just talking about something else instead and it went good. Then we went for a shopping, which it went better with our interactions. I began to holding hands and small kind of physically interaction. We went for a dinner after and i made her laugh a lot of the times. So when we went back just to chill a little bit before i haad to go home. We cuddle for a bit, even though i felt a small resistance from her side. I mean she wrote “no kissing” after all. So when we said goodbye, we kissed, we laugh for a bit, because i made a comment about “no kissing” Then we kissed again, but nothing more, and i did tried to get more than kisses, but not directly. I think our first interaction went well. But what does that kiss mean? What should i do after this point? How can i make her to think about me and not the guy she has been seeing? Especially when she was so hot towards me a few weeks before.
Thank youYeah, but i think it is because i have been a little bit too much with being needy and desperat, when she flirting with me. So, i asked her recently if she even wants to see me at all. And soon I will be in her city, sp i asked her that if she wants to meet. She replied “no kissing” So yeah, i figured that i did scare her off by being needy and show too much affections while we were texting. What can i do about this? Because before that she was very flirty with me and teases me all the time, but all of sudden she went cold and no texts at all. But yeah, i guess i will have a meeting with her soon. And now i figured it out that why she was sad and cold, because it had something to do with me. She knows that i still have feelings for her. How can i interact with her even she knows that i am stil want to getting back with her. And how should i respond her text “no kissing”? A tip would be much apreciated since i don’t have too much time. I will be in her city 1st febuary.
*Another update*
Now she seems to be cold towards me. I called her asking her that i could visit her next week, but she said maybe, because she had to work, but i know that it was a short shift. Since then she had been acting cold. I called her recently but she hung up, and she texted me instead that she was crying. I asked her what was wrong. She just replied with a short answer “everything” I said that she could talk with me about it, but she just ignored my text. Recently she has been very cold towards me, and she began to like some love-related pictures on instagram, like “hold your loved ones close and forget about the ones who bringe you down” I know that i shouldn’t be over analyzing these kind of things, but i am very scared of that the person who brings her down was me. On 1st febuary i will be in her town, which i asked her but didn’t got any answer from her.
What should i do? I know that it is hot and cold behaviour, but i am very scared of pushing her away. I knew that she stil had feelings for me, but right now, not so sure anymore since she had been acting cold. Please help me.
*Update*
After a week on NC she called me asking about how i was, we talked for a little bit. It was a casual and light conversation. We didn’t talk after that but we snapchatted from time to time. Our conversation got more positive after times. So, last week, i called her to say goodnight, a little bit of chatting too. And it was a positive conversation. Recently she texts me that when i could visit her. I replied her that i was busy in january(which i am) I recently started in a cooking class. Secondly, i have problem with body, i got atopic dermatitis (eczema) and i didn’t want her to see me like this, so i told her that i could visit her after my body is fully healed. She replied that she didn’t care even if i didn’t have any skins left, she just wanted me to visit her. So, what should i do? I am scared of blow the oppotunity away by taking time, and i am scared that i will scare her of(not of my skins lol) I know that i have to be mmyself and funny and have good time with her, but how do i do that?
