Wayne Cubed

Thanks guys for the responses. I’m just taking it slow at the moment. She has sent a couple flirty like messages to me but I’m trying to not to be full on and messaging her all the time. Gives her space and time to think, I believe.

@patricia We we’re together for just under 3 years. We did discuss the problems previously. My ex unfortunately suffers from depression/anxiety and lack of confidence in her self. This has come about from previous relationships where she was mentally and physically abused. I think from my perspective and what I’ve realised is that I needed to be more supportive and encouraging. I know I’d get frustrated when she slipped into the darker parts of her depression and I wasn’t quite sure how to handle it all. She’s finally gotten back into therapy so I knows she’s on a better course now.

To be honest, I’m not exactly sure myself what she meant by “she can’t give me what I deserve”, I think she possibly wasn’t in a good place mentally? At this point I don’t want to push her for answers. I’m enjoying the occasional conversation and I’ll work towards her opening up about what she meant by those things she said.

Thanks again!