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  • in reply to: second attempt to reconcile? #73702
    vagosg
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    thanks yours, age diff is indeed big i know it will not last long, i am the older and definetely is not a sugar daddy relationship. meantime we met for a drink we discussed, said he missed me but there are still those bad moments that he thinks of, anyway i mentioned that we have both reassumed online dating to which he agreed and argued is not exactly for sex dates but more of in the context of rethinking everuthing. After 1 day I thought it was the right time to struck! I invited him to go to the beach. he called me next day to arrange. then i gently said i would be doing somethong with friends at night and i show he looked intetrestinv to join and invited him and finally we spent the night together and finally all weekend. we came close and with few words we just said that happiness is our goal,to stop “silly things”, to proceed together “this summer”, few honest words. I feel happy lets see how it goes. (the problems have been extensively communicated between us on the previous 3 meetings)

    in reply to: second attempt to reconcile? #73667
    vagosg
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    I guess he propably show me online on the same dating site and near him. I got some 8 repeated calls. I only replied some 2 hours late to the tenth call. He proposed to go out tonit but none of us set a specific time due work and agreed to talk later or exchange texts. However, I arrenged to see my friends. He called late about 28 times to arrange to meet even but I never answered only some 2 hours late saying that I was with frienda and forgot my mob in the car. He started an unforseen lengthy argument why I never informed him while he was at work that I would be finally meeting friends and that I never call anyway. I argued you asked for space/ break up etc and I see no reason to contact. Anyway I suggested tommorow or day after tommorow and again started an argument that I dont care and push him at the end of my list etc… Lets see how it goes..

    in reply to: second attempt to reconcile? #73650
    vagosg
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    we met for some 4 hours he has been pressy asking about waht i have been doing and my friends, he told me i was secretive about my phone use texting to friends.. we argued abt that.. anyway begging he said about his vacations and that we can go sometime, i argued on what basis? he said we could.. before leaving I daid im departing slowly and tried to ensure he unserstands that both of us are searching… anyway he said I looked differt and improved to be happy and to meet again and see how it goes… there was not a single touch

    in reply to: second attempt to reconcile? #73639
    vagosg
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    at the same time I noticed he has loged on to dating sites till early morning.

    in reply to: second attempt to reconcile? #73638
    vagosg
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    thanks reply.. latest developments: saturday night 12 o clock calls me. I replied some 30 minutes later because I had the feelinf that we may come across to the same club. He askes to see if im going out and with whom im going out. Said he is meeting some friends. He asked me what i have been doing every single day of past week. He told me that he was very tired sleeping early each night. Then he said that tommorow he s alone and maybe we can meet up. I said we talk then. I talked about positive developments regarding my career problems etc and was so brief that in return he pressed to find out details which I gently refused to declare. I felt he was very pressy eith regards to what I have been doing and whom I have been meeting and even argued at an instance. I will not call back unless he calls me and I will ask for the reason of our eventual meeting.

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