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She still has a number of gifts I gave her through the relationship and still cherishes them
I dont know how well brealing contact would work at this point, seeing as we’ve agreed to be friends. She still has constant reminders of me with her there everyday, but like you said before, I dont want her to feel unwanted.
Being entirely honest, if I could afford it, I would spring for the email advice, because she’s worth it. My concern with it all is how well trying to use these steps would work at this point
I never got to give her a ring because she wanted to wait. As far as it goes with the closure, it was about things we had felt were off in the telationship that caused issues, and being honest about it all. We both feel like it helped us both as much as it hurt to have it all in the open. To be clear, neither of us ever felt like there was a loss of trust, just a loss of connection. While I’m happy to be friends rather than absent from each other’s lives, it sucks to be stuck there, and I hope that I can get the chance to do it all over the right way.
I was moving towards that offer of committment, but I think it scared her a little, because we havent really lived together, something I was going to fix after the end of training. I also think that her graduating this year and me being gone for some very stressful situations doesnt help because she got too far into her head about it all. My worry is that she’s going to want to stay friends permanently, and even though I am happy still getting to make her smile, I want more. I know she still has feelings, but what can I do to reconnect?
We were together for over a year, she goes to college in NY and I live in Texas. The long distance was never really an issue because we had amazing level of trust and connection at day 1. Ironically she said I felt more distant in person before I left for boot camp. Good news is that Im in the reserves so I live in our hometown, but I still have a month of training left and she hit me with this at the beginning of November.
