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Thanks. I’m really struggling. I’m still talking to him. We brought up NYE plans as we originally had made some together. His friend might have a get together and I said I might go out with my girlfriends who want to hook me up with one of her friends. He was like what do you mean hook up? Like hook hook up? As in sex? I said no. I asked if he was okay and he said yeah why wouldn’t I be. He then said he got mad a little. Actually a lot because he still cares. That’s good right?
Thank you so much for replying. It meant everything to me when he told me yesterday that he was falling for me. He originally told me he wasn’t sure how he felt about me.
When I texted him saying we shouldn’t meet up, I said I was hurt and confused and asked his opinions and thoughts on our conversation. That’s when he said if we want to meet in person he is up to it. I try not to look into things but by him not telling me anything is that good or bad?
I broke it last night. The 5th day. Just sent him a Merry Christmas text and went against my own advice and continued a conversation with him. He said he wasn’t doing too well, isn’t going how he planned, he thinks he might have made a mistake in ending it, that he was falling hard for me but wanted to protect me from himself and his flaws. He then asked where does this leave us? And of course I replied I don’t know because I don’t! I don’t know what he wants anymore.
Later last night I snapped, I texted him asking if we could meet up and talk (about what I have no idea, maybe figure all this out). He said yes we can, just pick a day. Then I went into how I was weak and looked desperate which he told me I didn’t, that he doesn’t see this or me like that. He told me to ease my mind and let him know when and we can meet up.
Friend kinda got mad at me told me I wouldn’t be able to do it, I’m not strong enough yet. So i sent him a message saying we shouldn’t but I want to know his opinion. He said If I want to meet and talk in person he is willing to do that. So Saturday I’m set to meet him. We continued talking about random things here and there. Talking like we’re friends basically. Should I try out the Relationship Rewind and establish a false friendship when I see him on Saturday and then go back into no contact? Should I cancel Friday and just continue no contact?
I know I’m new to here but I could really use some help and advice. I’m clearly no good at this no contact thing and could just use some support.
Thanks guys (and gals)!
I’m slightly confused between here and Relationship Rewind. Through the 5 step plan there’s no contact. But through RR he really doesn’t enforce or use no contact.
I would like opinions on if you are using relationship rewind or 5 step plan or even both what is working the best for you.
