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Hey,
I feel a bit like he is keeping you in limbo. “Not knowing when he has the energy” he knows how he feels about the letter deep down but he’s not sharing it with you- sort of like to keep you waiting, which really isn’t fair. As he is doing things to get your attention I think this shows that the NC rule is working to some point as he is starting to crack slightly. If I was you I would do 2 more weeks of no contact and if he hasn’t reached out then you can send a simple WhatsApp asking how he is then go off his response. From my experience I find men are better at communicating when some time has passed. But I wouldn’t initiate meeting quite yet- just my thoughts.
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I haven’t reached out yet, but he messaged me over the weekend just to say I looked nice in my new picture I do however think he was drunk. I didn’t respond as I honestly didn’t know what to say. I want to message him but shouldn’t I complete the NC first? I do love him but I’m not sure whether giving him more space is better for now so he sorts his head out- what would you do?Hey,
No Nothing we haven’t spoken in over 2 weeks. He’s constantly on my mind I don’t know whether to reach out soon, but then I keep thinking if I really meant something to him like he kept saying would he of just stopped making an effort? I’m so confused.
Hi,
Thank you for your lovely message 🙂
I get what you mean and no I was never pushy he openly told me about things and I was always there but as things went on it was as if he was isolating himself and focusing more on the people that did him wrong than those who really care (me being one of them).
Usually with boys I would just end it when things start getting bumpy its the way I have always been but with this one I really don’t want to- I haven’t felt like this before.
Thank you for your lovely words
Yeah I understand being like that probably wasn’t right but it’s difficult to just be back totally normal. I felt apprehensive about the situation because he got a bit spooked of commitment first time round that is what caused the argument. Ok I’ll complete 30 days no contact again and if I don’t hear off him this time I will reach out and ask to talk. Thank you!
