sambo4g63

Well this post is going no where lol and I keep making matters worse I think….

New update… last Saturday her and I had made plans so that she could take our daughter to the movies for the day. When she was coming over I asked if she would bring our dogs over as well so I could spend the day with them. Well she did and then after the movie she came back and stayed until today (Wednesday) I found out that she had finally had enough and hell had broken open at her house and she was done and so I welcomed her with open arms… two days into it I find out he is threatening her and holding her belongings hostage and what not so we decide to call the law and get help to gather her things, for some reason this took HOURS to get a plan together and then all of a sudden she wants to wait until the next day (today) so we agree and she goes upstairs later that night she tells me she has to go over there because she needs to take care of the cats and get some clothes, we get into a little argument because she doesn’t want me to go with her, doesn’t want any just her and him and I thought that was the worst idea, I find out she thinks she might want to run back to him and doesn’t know what she wants and “o just can’t let him go” so I bassicly told her if she isn’t ready to commit to me fully then I’m not going to sacrifice my happiness either, we fought a bit but finally talk her out of it and then the story changes again this morning, rather than going and getting her stuff she is going to go over there and begin packing so everything is in order and reassured me not to worry because he will not be there he will be at work until about 3, well 4 o clock rolls around and she still hasn’t left yet so I ask what’s up and she says she’s about to and blah blah so her and my daughter go and she says she will be back because our daughter has a school function that she is attending and it’s easier to get there from my house. So I let her borrow my car just Incase she needs the extra room and what not….so 430 she leaves…it’s now 1030 at night and I have texted her a few times just asking if all is well and letting her know I’m only a phone call away and have got nothing except once when she said “we’re fine we will be back soonish” which was 3 hours ago…. so I’m assuming he manipulated his way back into her heart and she’s gone again 🙁

Well it’s been a few days sense I tried to make this post originally, so update

I met her and her dude (just gonna call him bob cause it’s easier than rebound)

I met her and bob to exchange our daughter and bob ran into the store for something while he was there my ex tells me she needs to talk to me but has to find out how (keep in mind bob is EXTREMELY controlling and won’t let her talk to me)
I asked her what she needed to talk about and she said “just talk” I explained that the past weekend we shared got me into my head and made me hurt and I needed some time to process all these emotions and figure out where my heads at.

She got mad and haven’t spoken sense

But today I’ve been trying to contact her to finalize the exchange tomorrow and figure out a dr appointment for our daughter and she gave me
No response… I found myself blowing up her phone with about 8 messages wishing 4 hours. Ya they’re we’re all about our daughter but I was still LIVID

She’s better at the no contact thing I guess haha