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I apologized for just being so grumpy.
And ya we have both been laid off and also live in a small 2 bedroom place so spend pretty well every moment together. Funny enough we have been having a blast together, funner then we have ever had before. Learning more about each other each day and we act as though we are in a relationship in every sense of the word except for the touching.
I felt like things were going really well with the touching but then she spoke to her girlfriend. Not that her friend doesn’t like me but may have given advice for her to stop going around in circles with me. The touching has stopped completely the past couple of days. Any time I try to initiate it, it just feels like awkward and nerdy so I stop. Am I suppose to continue down the path of just having a blast or should I try a different strategy now?
I want to say I really appreciate you taking the time to reply and helping me out so thank you so much!
The other day was a bad day for myself and I apologized to her for it. We have been getting closer and besides the touching it feels as if we are in a relationship in every other sense. I suppose I was worried as I feel I’m being put in the friend zone or treated as a brother so I felt that I needed to make my intentions still clear. Our last big argument was maybe 2.5 weeks back now and we have lived together for 6 months.
Yesterday she seemed cautious in the morning so I kept my distance but continued to be in a great mood and by the afternoon we seemed to be okay again. I do seriously hope all this works because I still love her so much and I would like nothing else then to hold her again.
At this point I’m getting frustrated to be honest. I’m having a hard time understanding why she doesn’t see me as the perfect guy. We have spent every moment together, we are laughing, having fun, etc. I’m even taking care of her when she seems extremely vulnerable and not taking advantage of the situation. I made a sex comment today and she said that was inappropriate even though we have made plenty of sex jokes in the past couple of days. That made me upset so she decided to go take a walk by herself. Is this all just a lost cause?
So its been a few days and we have been doing nothing but fun, I’ve been making her laugh tons, I’m being playful, I’ve even started to touch her every now and then. Any time she starts arguing I just squash it with niceness or just start being silly.
She still though at night runs to her room very abruptly and says good night, no cuddles yet :(. Am I just being impatient?
