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I decided to go back into NC until she is really really READY! to go back out with me. Which will probably take a looking time :, (
Your right. I decided to go back into NC! And I told her to not contact me unless she is really really READY! So I’m going back to NC until the day she wants to get back for real….which will probably take a really long time :,(
She said she’s ready. And she does have a boyfriend buts he’s just a rebound. She said she wants to build up our friendship and fix this and then she might end up leaving him for me. And she said that she doesn’t care if we still kiss and have sex and stuff because that other guy is just her rebound. What should I do?
Well her boyfriend is her rebound. She said she wants me. But I don’t want a friendship. She said she wants to build up our friendship and fix it and she said she will end up leaving him for me. What should I do?
Wow….she basically was lieing….she’s not ready….she just misses me and wanted to see me. Then I find out that she’s in a relationship with someone else. Ugh!!! Now I’m hurt :, (
HELP!!!!!
OMG!!!! SHE JUST TEXTED ME AND SAID “I’m ready” OMG!!! I hope this means what I think it means!!!
Should I text her back!???
I think she wants to go back our
OMG!!!! SHE JUST TEXTED ME AND SAID “I’m ready” OMG!!! I hope this means what I think it means 🙂
Lol thanks. And yeah, she wants a friendship with me but I said no. I love her and I just want her so I’m just gonna do NC and hope she wants me back. It’s mostly because she’s in college and 18. Shes not ready for anything serious yet. We been together for 7 months. She knows that I want a commitment and relationship with her. Shes been calling me and texting me. She still loves me. She tells me. I just can’t wait for that text for when she is finally ready for me. Shes the one I want to marry. But I guess she ain’t ready for all that yet. So I’m just gonna do NC and wait for her. Shell be back. She even texted “I really hope to get back together one day” she still wears my promise ring. She told me that she will always wear it. I just know she’ll be back….but idk when….I just hope soon.. I love her and I miss her :, (
No Contact Rule
Day 1 – text message and 7 missed calls
Day 2 – nothing
Day 3 – 1 missed call
Day 4 – text messages
Day 5 – text messages
Day 6 – 1 missed call
And don’t worry, I’m going threw the same thing. Day 4 of no contact. She called me alot…but now she just texts me.
Well, just do the no contact for 30 days or more if needed. There’s a chance of her to start missing you. Once after 30 days, when u feel that your ready, text her. But make sure it’s nothing boring. Make it interesting and exciting. Don’t be like “hey” “how are you”. That’s not not a good way to start. The best thing is to start with a good memory that you two had together. Here are some examples
“Saw a copy of Titanic on dvd and reminded me of you. I remember the smile on your face and how excited you were when we saw it in the theaters.”
”Hi, how are you doing? Sorry for bothering you, just wanted to ask if you happen to have the name of the electrician your aunt recommended? My lighting system is not working!”
”Hi, hope all is well… just wondering whether you remember the name the African restaurant we went for your cousin’s birthday? I want to take my sister there but I can’t recall the name.”
”Hi, just wanted to inform you that “Kung foo” fighters were coming to town next week, hope you were able to get the tickets!”
”Hi there, just noted that a new season of “Samantha soap” TV show commences tonight, Thought you would like to know because I remember you are a huge fun of that show!”
Why did you guys break up in the first place?
Okay thank you! I won’t break it. But I’m just worried thinking that another guy is helping her right now. She said she needs me right now and has no one….she needs someone right now….it’s been 2 hours since that message….and be she never messaged again…what if there’s another guy helping her out right now. It hurts that someone else is there for her….and I’m not :/ now she’s probably gonna hate me even more for no being there for her.
