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Also another question for you, can you still consider it a rebound relationship if it’s been going on for just over a year? It certainly has some aspects of a rebound relationship, like starting so fast after a serious relationship and moving in together fast. And I do agree that it seems like they’re rushing to the next step so quickly. Even rushing the wedding. I’m just curious if you can think it’s still a rebound relationship after year
You need to make him miss you a little and by not talking to him for a while he may start to!
Lynn-thanks for the comment.
Your top section is spot on, she’s always felt the need to play catch up. And it seems like she’s rushed a lot to fill a void, I also agree the lack of happiness is in her.
When I used to see the Facebook stuff I would always block her, but now I just leave it, I don’t want her to know I still care, but maybe I should?
What do you mean was she like that when we were together and what about changing with her brothers wedding? Just trying to get clarification!
Also Lynn if you wouldn’t mind, I posted my story on here and could use feedback as well! It’s kind of long but the details felt necessary, thanks!
I completely understand and know where you are coming from. I would try getting that stuff to him, maybe wait till his birthday but make it very much known you got him it for Christmas, etc. it’s really hard to feel so distant from someone who was once everything. Maybe don’t talk to him for a couple weeks then see if he wants the gift? I would try that
You could Always mention the gift but act like it’s not a big deal. If he agrees to get it, blow off his first attempt to meet up. I did this with my ex, had some of her stuff, and blew off her first attempt to meet up. When she came over she made the excuse to stay (asked me to have a beer with her) I think playing it off like it didn’t matter did help.
Lynn,
I hear where you are coming from. I too agree that in person meetings are much more affective. It’s easy to blow off a text, letter, etc because even if you put emotion into it, it’s not the same as seeing them in front of you.
Do you have any of his stuff you can use to get back to him as an excuse to see him?
